u/Iviyun_of_winterfell

True love is letting go and it's now I'm realizing that. He's happy and I'm proud of myself for not being selfish at our final moment. Universe made us stay for 2 years to teach us that. Now we have matured and we know what is best for us. We can't force anything

I did let him go. I hope you do exceptionally well in your life and I will always be one of the happiest to hear those. I know you will be happy to hear my future too. We have become friends to lovers to strangers with memories. I hope life is kinder to you and me. I'm proud of myself and I'm not regretting a one bit for every moment I got to spend with you. Bad times were there and they were more than good times.

Now is the time to restart our lives. Let's chase our dreams . We may part ways but I will always wish the best for you. I'm not angry and I will never be.

I'm happy for all the lessons you gave me.

With those I'll find myself again.

I hope you have the courage to stand your ground.

I hope you realize some storms will have to come to clear our ways.

I hope you don't get lost on the run

May destiny be fair and odds be in ypur favour.

You will never see this

And I will never send you this

Accept this as my last act of our long lasted love and friendship.

In my heart I always will be a best friend for you

I know you are for me too

But I'll never come again into your life to make you question your decisions

I hope both of us get the contentment we wish for

Letting go did made me feel better

Now I know I truly loved you. Things will be sorted at the end. If they do not it may not be the end.

I really want to hear from 10 years from now that you have everything you wished for

We are both 23 and were dating since we are 20. We go to different universities and now is not the time both of us got hardest time in our lives. Both of us thought this would last and went extra miles that no one would've went. His family pressured him to abandon the degree he loved so he feels so out of place in his life and want his dreams back so he's obsessed with them which I can't blame him for. On the other hand I (23f) at least did not have to do that so I'm on the way to my planned career so he thinks I'm in a lot better place than him , but hard times doesn't make you feel anything good about your choice of university . Both of us planned years ahefad of our lives how we would travel , retire early and have time for ourselves. He was obsessed with me at the start and I thought best thing to do is being with him at the cost of my academics which I didn't regret at that time( even now). He was diagnosed with bipolar and didn't want to take meds for a long time so I had to tolerate his tantrums sudden coldness and rudeness for a long while bcz i thought eventually things will work out. He then got help and so much better now mentally and now the only thing in his head is his academics and not me for a one bit. I feel selfish for asking his time although he aked hours of my time earlier and I gave although I was struggling to make everything work. He didn't call me for 3 months amd only time we had a conversation longer than 10 mins was in weekend. This is like this for 2 months because his semester end exam whereas earlier he wanted me to talk to him even the day before my exam. I started university just prior to his diagnosis and he made me hate everything about university life putting rules to a point he asked me to depend on him because we are staying forever and I totalky trusted him. I couldn't see for a one bit what I will do if this fails. Now I'm diagnosed with depression and currently on meds after some time trying to manage on my own. I am barely on a B+ level now although I was a straight A student before.

Now he accuses me for having no dreams because according to him asking him to talk to me for five minutes is a thing someone who isn't working on their ambitions would do. Now he says he can't do two things together and If he stays with me he'll have to wait till he's 60 for his dreams to come true. He says that he's having it harder and if it is my decision to stay I will have to bear his disconnected life forever because he likes to work .

Finally he said he's tired of this and it's better if we move on. Via just a text . He says he can't lose his dreams because of some love. I didn't ask him to. It's easy for him to say because now he doesnt need to spend 10 minutes a week talking to me. My friend also says someone else wouldve left him earlier but my stupid self can't bring myself to unlove him. He has done terrible things to me but still I don't want this to end. I know very well if this is meant to last this would've but right now I don't know what to think. My life feels stuck. Every sacrifice feels like a waste and I feel used. Please tell me what to think because I'm afarid of my own thoughts right now

Actually this is a genuine question that was bothering me for some time. Whether or not people living on the sea shore and near the rail roads have adequate and hygienic washroom facilities. I didn't find any published papers about inadequacy of latrine facilities even in watte communities in Colombo so I think this Demographic also is similarly overlooked.If this is a real issue in the community their kids have to take a toll on their health.( and knowing this piece of info would help someone (me) decide whether or not to conduct a study in this particular setting and disseminate the finding so moh can do some sort of intervention)