u/JFKmetColm

I’ve been with my boyfriend for over 3 years now. We live about 20 minutes from each other. Over the past few months, he’s been getting really into playing pickle ball. I have no problem with that at all.

The problem is, he plays for SO damn long. I work from 7-5 with a commute, so I’m gone from 6-6 every day. He gets out of work at 5 and immediately goes to meet up with his pickleball group. It’s all guys, they have a group chat and everything.

He plays for 3 straight hours, so it’s 8 pm or later by the time he’s heading home. Then, he wants to hang out.

Tonight, when he asked me to come over, it was 9 pm and I needed to be in bed by 11. I kind of lost it. I told him it was ridiculous for him to be gone EVERY day for 3 of the 5 hours I’m out of work every weeknight, then expect to make plans.

I realize this is a ridiculous problem, but am I overreacting? Is this incredibly annoying to anyone else?

Reglan 5mg, 3 times a day has worked well for me. Aside from some mild anxiety, I don’t have other side effects, and it has dramatically improved my quality of life. One of my doctors is encouraging me to just stay on Reglan permanently because of the difference. I still am the age where I want to have children in the future (not sure if this matters). My gastroenterologist and other medical professionals have warned against using Reglan for more than 12 weeks. One keeps calling it a “black box” warning medication. Has anyone been told to use Reglan permanently and is there something I should be extremely concerned about that I’m missing ? Any advice is appreciated.