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So my (26F) boyfriend (27m) have been together for almost 3 years, living together for about a year. When we first met we had a pretty fun and typical sex life. Maybe over the last year or two slowly our intimacy has declined. It’s to the point where I’m the only one who initiates sex, and a lot of the time he declines and says another time. I’d say we have sex once a month, sometimes every other month. If I never initiate we’d probably never have sex and he seems to be fine with that. I ask him why and try to talk about it but he just says I “try at the wrong times” but it seems it’s always a wrong time. He says he’s still attracted to me but never in the mood. Is this normal for a couple?

I’m planning on visiting Kaua’i in September for my birthday but wanted some insight on which resort would be best. I was wanting ocean front where the water is pretty and swimmable, we are gonna visit different beaches as well but still wanted something within walking distance also. I stayed in Waikiki last year and although I loved Oahu I was not a fan of Waikiki. The beach was kind of stinky with lots of rocks and just so many people so I want to avoid a Waikiki type of vibe.

Hi, just wanting maybe some insight from someone who has some experience with what we’re going through. My shih tzu Gizzy (12 years old) was recently diagnosed with a heart murmur, around the same time (a month ago) she started having seizure like activity in her sleep. She stretches her arms and whines and twitches for about a minute, she urinated her first episode. She is stiff and this lasts about a minute, then she’s unresponsive staring off and licking her lips for another minute (postictal?). She is not dreaming as she cannot be awoken or snapped out of it. Immediately after the episode she’s back to normal like nothing happened. This only happens in the middle of the night when she’s sleeping, she’s had 4 total episodes since it began a month ago and from beginning to end lasts 2-3 minutes when she’s back to normal. Her vet put her on pulmonary hypertension meds assuming these are syncope related because of her stage b1 murmur. But today her recent echo shows no signs of pulmonary hypertension and now they want to put her on Keppra. I’m worried that what if these are syncope episodes and putting her on Keppra isn’t the right move as I’ve heard negative things about it. Other than these issues she’s perfectly healthy and has an amazing quality of life. Happy, energetic, literally doesn’t act like she’s old everyone is shocked by her age. Just wondering if anyone has experienced this? I’d like to add that we’ve seen two vets at the same office about this and one thinks syncope other thinks seizures.

I just got my alternate letter after applying to a very competitive ASN program at my community college, only 32 students accepted and only 1-2 alternates. I am one of the alternates. Do you think there’s still a chance of getting in this semester I’m feeling a bit discouraged as there’s not many spots and this program is highly desired in my area so I can’t imagine anyone not accepting their spot.