3rd post
My posts keep getting taken down, just wanted to try again to get everyone’s insight here. My fiance and I have been together for 6 years and 5 days ago she was loving and wanted my name tattooed on her and 3 days ago she said she wanted to break up and have space, and I haven’t seen her since. we have a very loving relationship. I’ve been texting a lot and I know that was a mistake, but I was just desperate. I’ve been trying to show im listening and that I’m here, I stayed up last night studying bpd and told her and she said she’s been asking me to look into it for years and that I’m trying so hard now that it’s too late, and she’s pretty much said everything I’ve said is too late. We’ve had these kinds of things multiple times in our relationship but it’s never been like this, I want to give space but I’m just worried that she’s safe. My question is will space actually help? I don’t want to lose her and I would do anything to fight for her. I know she loves me and loves my family but the past 3 days she’s been treating us we don’t matter to her at all. Any help or insight would be so appreciated on how I should go about this moving forward, do I just stop texting? Full no contact? That’s not what I want at all but what I want is us, and I’d do anything. Thank you for any help or insight