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u/Jovalista

29 [M4F] Europe - My own
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29 [M4F] Europe - My own

Hello! 29 year-old from Slovenia here. As you can expect am looking for someone to bond with, grow close to and all of these nice things. I am someone who has hitherto lived a pretty closed-off and isolated life. I did not really open up to people and was quite afraid of them. But as you can see that is changing! And as an consequence of that one of the things I'd really want is someone of my own.

I'd like someone to share my day with, my thoughts, feelings, ideas, excitement, etc. Someone I would be really close with. My life situation honestly isn't the best. I do currently live alone, but have no job and am attending a training program to become a CNC operator. I will be starting my internship in just over a week. Part of the motivation for attending the program was to also go out into the world again, meet people and get used to social situations. And while not the best yet, it has gotten better. Ideally though I would be able to get some kind of remote job down the line (or you know, somehow have enough money or a passive income to not need to work, but I'm sure everyone wishes for that, mostly).

So a little more about me: I am 181cm tall, bald, blue eyes and pretty skinny. I do work out at home but it isn't anything extreme. You can check out my pics here: https://imgur.com/a/LNYzYke

I am relatively shy as a person though I do try to force myself to talk. A lot of the time I can also get really tired of interaction or overwhelmed from everything so I just hang back. I really like one of my online friends. Currently a lot of my hobbies or leisurely activities are on the backburner as I try to get better at CNC machining. And tbh I don't really have a lot of hobbies. I have been frozen for a very long time and am mostly still only discovering them.

I am a deeply caring person and would obviously want to hear if something was troubling you. I am looking for someone that would understand me and of course feel understood by me. I put a lot of emphasis on being understood as it allows me to be seen. I don't feel seen or understood by a lot of people. And I of course can't really create a connection if I feel they aren't even seeing me.

I am someone who is kind and someone who always tries to look for the truth. I would much rather it comes out before were two boiling messes of resentment. You can tell me pretty much everything as I'll pretty much be telling everything to you.

That's about it. I'll be quite surprised if any of you read this far (I know everyone writes this). Thank you if you did and I wish you the very best (and hopefully I'll see you on the other side).

u/Jovalista — 11 days ago
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29M - Looking for friends to play games with :)

Hello! I am a 29 year-old guy from Slovenia. I'm someone that doesn't really have a lot of friends so am turning to maybe find some people to play with :) I'd love to play Lethal Company, Trine, Portal Reloaded, Repo, Peak, or any other dumb game we'd like to try. Maybe FFXIV though you'd have to tolerate my newbieness. I am also watching Fullmetal Alchemist atm.

I have lived a pretty sheltered life (I have not broached a lot outside of my bubble). I am starting to be more myself now and something I'd definitely like is talk to more people :) I can be a bit rough around the edges, a bit direct and a bit odd, but I don't do any of those with the intention to hurt. If you'd like to know more about me, do message :) I love sharing stuff with others and hope to get closer. 

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u/Jovalista — 14 days ago
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Hello! I am a 29 year-old guy from Slovenia. I'm someone that doesn't really have a lot of friends so am hoping to maybe find some people I could connect with :) I have lived a pretty sheltered life (I have not broached a lot outside of my bubble). I am starting to be more myself now and something I'd definitely like is talk to more people :) I can be a bit rough around the edges, a bit direct and a bit odd, but I don't do any of those with the intention to hurt. If you'd like to know more about me, do message :) I love sharing stuff with others and hope to get closer. 

Eventually I'd love to play stuff together, like Lethal Company, Trine, Portal Reloaded, Repo, Peak, or any other dumb game we'd like to try. Maybe FFXIV though you'd have to tolerate my newbieness. I am also watching Fullmetal Alchemist atm.

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u/Jovalista — 16 days ago
▲ 1 r/Needafriend

Hello! I am a 29 year-old guy from Slovenia. I'm someone that doesn't really have a lot of friends so am hoping to maybe find some people I could connect with :) I have lived a pretty sheltered life (I have not broached a lot outside of my bubble). I am starting to be more myself now and something I'd definitely like is talk to more people :) I can be a bit rough around the edges, a bit direct and a bit odd, but I don't do any of those with the intention to hurt. If you'd like to know more about me, do message :) I love sharing stuff with others and hope to get closer. 

Eventually I'd love to play stuff together, like Lethal Company, Trine, Portal Reloaded, Repo, Peak, or any other dumb game we'd like to try. Maybe FFXIV though you'd have to tolerate my newbieness. I am also watching Fullmetal Alchemist atm.

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u/Jovalista — 19 days ago
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Hello! I am a 29 year-old guy from Slovenia. I'm someone that doesn't really have a lot of friends so am turning to maybe find some people to play with :) I'd love to play Lethal Company, Trine, Portal Reloaded, Repo, Peak, or any other dumb game we'd like to try. Maybe FFXIV though you'd have to tolerate my newbieness. I am also watching Fullmetal Alchemist atm.

I have lived a pretty sheltered life (I have not broached a lot outside of my bubble). I am starting to be more myself now and something I'd definitely like is talk to more people :) I can be a bit rough around the edges, a bit direct and a bit odd, but I don't do any of those with the intention to hurt. If you'd like to know more about me, do message :) I love sharing stuff with others and hope to get closer. 

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u/Jovalista — 22 days ago
▲ 1 r/GamerPals

Hello! I am a 29 year-old guy from Slovenia. I'm someone that doesn't really have a lot of friends so am turning to maybe find some people to play with :) I'd love to play Lethal Company, Trine, Portal Reloaded, Repo, Peak, or any other dumb game we'd like to try. Maybe FFXIV though you'd have to tolerate my newbieness. I am also watching Fullmetal Alchemist atm.

I have lived a pretty sheltered life (I have not broached a lot outside of my bubble). I am starting to be more myself now and something I'd definitely like is talk to more people :) I can be a bit rough around the edges, a bit direct and a bit odd, but I don't do any of those with the intention to hurt. If you'd like to know more about me, do message :) I love sharing stuff with others and hope to get closer. 

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u/Jovalista — 23 days ago
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Hello everyone :) Looking to chat and potentially forge long-term connection. I am 29M from Slovenia. I have lived a pretty sheltered life (I have not broached a lot outside of my bubble). I am starting to be more myself now and something I'd definitely like is talk to more people :) I can be a bit rough around the edges, a bit direct and a bit odd, but I don't do any of those with the intention to hurt. If you'd like to know more about me, do message :) I love sharing stuff with others and hope to get closer. Who knows, maybe we could play stuff together down the line - maybe not so distant line.

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u/Jovalista — 23 days ago
▲ 1 r/Needafriend

Hello everyone :) Looking to chat and potentially forge long-term connection. I am 29M from Slovenia. I have lived a pretty sheltered life (I have not broached a lot outside of my bubble). I am starting to be more myself now and something I'd definitely like is talk to more people :) I can be a bit rough around the edges, a bit direct and a bit odd, but I don't do any of those with the intention to hurt. If you'd like to know more about me, do message :) I love sharing stuff with others and hope to get closer. Who knows, maybe we could play stuff together down the line - maybe not so distant line.

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u/Jovalista — 23 days ago
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Hello! I am a 29 year-old guy from Slovenia. I'm someone that doesn't really have a lot of friends so am turning to maybe find some people to play with :) I'd love to play Lethal Company, Trine, Portal Reloaded, Repo, Peak, or any other dumb game we'd like to try. Maybe FFXIV though you'd have to tolerate my newbieness. Ideally we'd also become friends and talk about our lives, other things and interests, be there for each other, etc. Groups are also welcome to contact me but I'd ask for you to be understanding if I'll be a bit quiet at first due to anxiety. I have some other posts if you'd like to know a bit more about me :)

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u/Jovalista — 24 days ago
▲ 1 r/ForeverAloneDating

Hello! 29 year-old from Slovenia. As you can expect am looking for someone to bond with, grow close to and all of those nice things. I am someone who has hitherto lived a pretty closed-off and isolated life. I did not really open up to people and was quite afraid of them. But as you can see that is changing! And one of the things I'd really want in life is of course love.

I'd like someone to share my day with, my likes, my excitement. Someone I could be really close with.

My life situation honestly isn't the best. I do currently live alone but have no job or degree and am attending a training program to become a CNC operator. Part of the reason for attending this was also to go out into the world again, meet people amd get used to social interactions. And while not the best yet, it has gotten better and it has also helped me realize how important people are to me and my life.

On the other hand I am also looking for a remote customer service job which I previously held. And we'll see where we go from there (either finish program first or get cs job).

So a little more about me. I am relatively shy as a person though I do try to force myself a bit to talk. People usually don't hate what they hear :p I really like my friends (if I had them - well I do but none I'm really that close with). I am 181cm tall, bald, blue eyes and decently skinny. You can check out some pics here: https://imgur.com/a/hcigbzb

I really like reading Carl Jung's A Man and His Symbols. I mean I have only read the first two pages but it has so much information and so much of it was absolutely crazy to me (though I did make a wrong assumption about one thing :p). I am a deeply caring person and would obviously want to hear if something was troubling you. Um, I'm soft, nice and loyal (usually not prickly). Romantic and quite passionate (or at least writing this makes me think that). I like video games and anime too. Maybe will want to write something of my own one day.

That's about it. I'll be quite amazed if any of you read this far (I know everyone says this), especially because of my life situation but fair enough of you did! Thank you for reading and I wish you the very best (and hopefully see you on the other side ;p).

EDIT: Would just like to add that I do prefer if we start off as friends and get to know each other. I mean I dunno how this would even otherwise work.

u/Jovalista — 25 days ago
▲ 1 r/Needafriend

Hello! I am a 29 year-old guy from Slovenia and am looking to meet people with whom I could form a connection. We would ideally share our lives with each other, talk about our interests, and just talk about anything and everything. I am someone who does not have a lot of friends but would love to find new people I could talk to and whom would understand me and get me. I am someone who is not very confident socially so you can be the same. I do hope that you would be trying your best though, trying to still cut a life of your own even if it is massively difficult (I'll be there to support! and you can support me too :P).

We can talk about whatever you'd like. I can be interested in almost anything. Please be someone who is kind and is seeking a similar sort of connection.

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u/Jovalista — 25 days ago