Is ₱22,000 a Month Enough to Start Living Alone?
Problem/Goal:
I'm thinking about moving out once I receive my first salary. I earn ₱22,000/month, and I'm wondering if it's the right decision or if I'm being selfish.
Context:
I've been staying with some relatives for a while, along with another family member. They've been very kind and have never treated me badly. The problem isn't them—it's me.
I'm very introverted, and even though we live under the same roof, I constantly feel like a stranger. I rarely talk to anyone in the house except one person I'm close to. It's gotten to the point where being at home feels mentally exhausting.
I recently got a job that's also quite far from where I'm staying, so moving closer to work would make my commute much easier. I'm already in my 20s, so I feel like I'm at an age where living independently is a reasonable step.
The only thing holding me back is the guilt. They've been good to me, and I don't want them to think I'm leaving because of them.
Previous Attempts:
I've tried telling myself to just get used to it and be more social, but after a long time, I still feel the same. That's why I'm considering moving out instead.
For those earning around ₱22k/month, is living alone realistic? Would you move out if you were in my situation?