u/Just-Discussion-4743

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I have been researching whether it would be okay to obtain a ID card in your preferred name and preferred title, even if you have a provisional and passport in your birth name; I say this because I’m not out to my parents yet and I’m not using it for fraud purposes, I’m using it for shops, pubs etc because giving them my ID in my birth name and gender at birth is really a teeth gritter and overwhelming since they say for example “what can I get for you mate” and then when I ask for a pint, they ask for me ID and they give me weird looks, which puts me down and there’s that..

TL;DR : not out to my parents yet, all my ids are in my birth name and birth gender, wondering if it’s legal and ok to get a citizens card(form of ID) in my chosen name with deed poll and chosen title “Mr”

Thank you for reading.

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