Where are you putting the hard parts?

I’m 14.5 months out from losing my husband after 13 month battle with cancer (f cancer by the way). We were together almost 30 years, married for most of those. And we had a strong marriage and not only loved each other but still really liked each other. But because we were 2 humans living together it wasn’t perfect. And lately I’ve been getting angry over those parts of our marriage. There is literally nothing to do with those feelings and no way to fix them either. So I wonder where I put them? And for those who had some bumps, how are you all handling the memories of times that aren’t so great?

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u/JustPlodAlong — 1 month ago

Social Security Claim number

Hi Redditland I’m hoping someone can help. My son has turned 18 and I now need to return his conserved funds to the Social Security administration. They are asking me to write my Social Security claim number on the check. To my knowledge that claim number is my Social Security number followed by some type of suffix but I’m not sure what the letters are. I am a representative payee. Does anyone here have experience with that and or know what that letter or letter should be? Thank you!

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u/JustPlodAlong — 3 months ago

How perfect?

Our girl gets her spay and gastropexy on Friday. I’m worried about keeping her calm for 2 weeks. Obviously there won’t be doggie playdates or off leash runs but she will randomly get wild hairs when we are home - like taking off and running around a corner or jumping up when excited. We will do our very best to keep that controller but there is no way to be perfect. So for those who have been through it - how did you manage it? Thanks!

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u/JustPlodAlong — 5 months ago