▲ 11 r/mcgill

switching from concordia to mcgill

hey! recently i got accepted into biochem at concordia, however i still rlly want to try mcgill… i actually have a terrible cote r. but i wanted to know if i do a few semesters at Concordia and keep a high gpa would it be possible to switch to mcgill?

has anyone ever been in the same situation?

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u/Just_Book_184 — 4 days ago

refused from all 3 of my choices

So I checked on the concordia website to see if I was admitted or rejected, and i applied for biochemistry, biology and chemistry all in specialization. I read while applying that if you are not accepted in specialization you are automatically considered for major. but when i checked the website it just said you have been refused admission, please read the letter for clarification. I still have not gotten the letter and when i called the admissions they said to wait for the letter cause they don't know why I was refused yet.

So anyone who has been accepted in major but not specialization, how did they tell you?

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u/Just_Book_184 — 14 days ago
▲ 2 r/Situationships+1 crossposts

He doesn’t want a relationship

me and my friend of a year and a half have been really talking romantically for 3-4 months. We started off beings friends liking each other but stopped talking but 4 months ago we started talking again. We went on a date 3 months ago and I got my first kiss there and after that we would see each other every week talking and kissing. I made sure to say before hand that I really wasn’t ready to get intimate, as it is my first time and he was so understanding and he said don’t worry I really like you. He told me he was gonna ask me to be his girlfriend many times. so I genuinely thought we were talking and later he would ask me. He went on a trip and there he called me everyday to tell me how much he missed me, how he can’t find any other girls pretty cause he only sees me. he came back and when he got back we immediately saw each other. I went to his place and we kissed but then we got a bit more intimate. He saw me naked, but we didn’t have sex, but I was very vulnerable as it was my first time. That night I gave him head and he was so nice about it and I don’t know everything seemed fine. He dropped me home and I asked him when will you ask me to be your girlfriend and he said In A month or so and I said ok that’s fine. Then a day later he doesn’t really text me, and I ask why haven’t you texted or called me, and I asked again will you ever ask me to be your gf, then he says this is just for fun. a few days later we go out and I tell him to explain to me what he thinks of us and he says I don’t want a relationship, ans I don’t think I’ll ever be ready. I said I can continue how we are now cause I really like you and he just said it would hurt you too much. I said no so he said alright but I started crying and then he said no you cant do it. I think we should end it here.
now I’m so upset cause why did he give me this expectation that he was gonna ask me. Not only that, he knows I had this fear he would leave me after we got a bit intimate. I also realized that when we we do anything just a bit more than kissing, he’ll always text me to ask if I’m okay. This time he didn’t. He said he isn’t ready for a relationship cause he can’t keep checking up on me and giving me attention.
I don’t know how to feel… I feel so stupid for thinking that this would go anywhere. I mean will his feeling about relationships change? He told me months ago how he could really see us together, and how he would ask me. Why is he switching up now

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u/Just_Book_184 — 4 months ago
▲ 25 r/sex

Embarrassed of moaning while only kissing

so me 19F and this guy I’m dating were making out, I was straddling him and grinding on him. I’m still a virgin and completely inexperienced. As we were kissing he was touching my boob and I couldn’t help but moan, like a lot. Mind you we are both fully clothed and just making out but it was too much for me. Now I’m so embarrassed cause he wasn’t making any noise and I don’t even know if his breathing changed. I feel like I was doing too much but I really couldn’t help it. I also don’t know how to make our make out sessions better for him.

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u/Just_Book_184 — 5 months ago

Not ready yet

I’ve been friends with this guy for more than a year but we‘ve been more romantically talking for a few months and I genuinely really like him. he drives to see me and it’s kinda like a 20-25 mins drive. All we’ve done is make out and kind of touch each other, but I’m scared he wants more soon. I’m just not ready to do more sexual and more intimate things cause I’m really scared he’s gonna leave me. He also hasn’t asked me to be his girlfriend yet and it makes me sad and shameful that I’m doing things too quickly. i don’t want to seem like a prude to him so idk how to say I want to take things a bit slower.

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u/Just_Book_184 — 5 months ago

So I’ve been talking to him for a few months and he’s perfect, I love his humour, his personality, his voice and everything. But I’m not physically attracted to him. I can’t find him attractive, so when I get the ick, it lasts for a long time. We went on a date and towards the end he said how he wanted to kiss me. It was my first time so I was super nervous but then we did kiss. its also cause I couldn’t bring myself to say no cause I know it would just hurt him so I felt bad. Regardless, I don’t know I feel horrible cause I can’t find him attractive and it makes me so sad cause I love his personality!

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u/Just_Book_184 — 5 months ago