u/Just_Stalking2829

I told this guy that he was my crush and I like him..to which he replied that it feels all of sudden to him, so for now he wants us to be friends...we started chatting and it's been nearly a week...and I feel like I am overly sharing what happened in my day and expressing every single thing about how I feel...he replies well but I feel this strange thing that he's not interested in knowing all those and just being nice so he doesn't hurt me..

And I also wanted to ask if he felt forced to message me, or if he was just replying so I wouldn't get hurt cuz he knows me from 2-3 years...we were friends just hi bye friends and he didn't know that he was my crush and I told him that this last week only

I had a crush on this guy for almost 2 years... I first saw him in my English class and I still remember the moment I got a crush on him... We used to talk very little and now that is too faded.. I see him everyday but never talks with me... All his friends (group of 5-6) almost 4 of them talks to me well except this guy... he used to talk with me in those old days and stopped after our English course finished... I tried talking to him a few times in which he shows less interest towards me or acts busy on his phone(to which I felt bad).

One of his friends (who is from his friend gang) asked him and told me this..."why don't you talk with her...you guys were talking back nicely in those days.. why did you stop?" My crush replied to him saying that if he talks to me then I may get disturbed (cuz I'm one of those toppers/rankers in my uni) that's why he stopped being friends with me.

I told my other friend (not related to my friend gang) that my crush has a crush on another girl, and he said maybe he's not interested in me because of that.

I tried to tell him a few times but ended up silently thinking about the consequences...what will happen after that... I am ok if he says nothing to me back but I am scared what if he says yess/i am also his crush/smtg like that... I don't know what will come next??

And recently I am thinking of telling him and confess what all wanted to say... But I am kinda confused and nervous... Is it worth telling him or will I get looked down by him... Also there's no time (just 1 week left) cuz we get summer holidays and I will be unable to see him for the next 2 months...

Tldr; what do you guysss say...? Shall I?

I think I have a crush on this guy... I first saw him in my English class and I still remember the moment I got a crush on him... We used to talk very little and now that is too faded.. I see him everyday but never talks with me... All his friends (group of 5-6) almost 4 of them talks to me well except this guy... he used to talk with me in those old days and stopped after our English course finished... I tried talking to him a few times in which he shows less interest towards me or acts busy on his phone(to which I felt bad).

One of his friends (who is from his friend gang) asked him and told me this..."why don't you talk with her...you guys were talking back nicely in those days.. why did you stop?" My crush replied to him saying that if he talks to me then I may get disturbed (cuz I'm one of those toppers/rankers in my uni) that's why he stopped being friends with me.

My other friend said that he’s not interested in me because my crush has a crush on another girl.

I tried to tell him a few times but ended up silently thinking about the consequences...what will happen after that... I am ok if he says nothing to me back but I am scared what if he says yess/i am also his crush/smtg like that... I don't know what will come next??

And recently I am thinking of telling him and confess what all I wanted to say... But I am kinda confused and nervous... Is it worth telling him or will I get looked down by him... Also if I say now we get summer holidays and I will not see him for the next 2 months...so no awkwardness if smtg goes wrong..

TL;DR: what do you guysss say...?