u/Kenneth_Marston0911

Why do some people say that Andrew is misogynist to women? I’ve read and reread the books multiple times and I can’t understand it. You could mention when he chocked Allison but he would’ve done the same no matter who had hit Aaron, woman or not, and at least there is one occasion in which I can think of that you could call Andrew misogynist, which is when he threatened (? Katelyn and left her in tears, but im a bit confused on this scene as I read it a while ago, I just know that it was very aggressive for no reason and even Neil saw that. But I would like to hear other people’s opinions on this

I am so excited for the broken cage and I am also wondering if jean and jeremy will have a similar phrase/dynamic to Andrew and Neil. Considering Jean’s abuse he will need clear boundaries, bur let’s also remember that Jeremy does not have a healthy relationship with sex and he’s been hurt over and over this way, he seeks it out when he knows it will hurt him because they always treat him like he’s nothing and just an object. So jeremy has had no time to experience healthy sex which i’m sure will complicate the boundary thing, because Jeremy wants to respect Jean but also has no previous experience of that, and Jean also has never had consensual sex so he will also have a hard time grasping boundaries. With this do you people think that they will be as clear as Andrew and Neil were with each step or something different but equally as respectful? Andrew learned such clear consent from previous hook ups to avoid any touch and also avoid crossing boundaries and Neil knows to follow it and also ask at every moment, but Andrew had time to learn this in the past, which Jeremy and Jean don’t have. Im sure they will learn with each other though, and im curious to hear you people out

If someone would explain how this works a little better for me I would be so so grateful. Basically I am writing an aftg oc and this led me to question all of exy. I haven’t gone to an university myself so I am curious, like with Neil’s case he only joined the university so he could play exy by kevin’s request, so at least in this books universities just have sports?? Im confused by that. I never questioned this before until now, and also to play would you need to be 18 or could you be younger? Im going to guess that you need a high school diploma to join whatever university you need to play, so this would require you to be 18, but then if the sport is connected to the university how is it that the ravens never saw any light if they would need to go to their classes? Ik im just rambling at this point but I really do need to understand this better to write my oc

Hello !! I’ve been making lots of warrior cats ocs and I was wondering if my names were getting repetitive so here are they; weepingblaze, oakwhisper, lemurcall, mottledtear, shatteredwish, owlsong, jaycry, badgerscreech, snappedwing, hollowface, flamingsprint, coalstep, foxstalk and soottuft.

Im writing lore for a warrior cat’s oc and I need to figure out how to make two different leader’s lose all of their live’s at once. I would really appreciate any ideas on this, I could do something similar to what happened to Tigerstar but the other leader is killed by someone who does not have that much courage so I need a different way.

Any recs on this? I would prefer if the fics are at least 10k words but anything is fine, I want fics of Andrew dealing with his trauma or having nightmares/flashbacks etc

It was something very simple and very, very recent. It happened a few days ago, and what happened basically was that I woke up to my mom’s hand roaming my body from my waist going down to my bottom, I was half asleep and I only snapped when her hand instead touched my face. She was waking me up and im not sure why she did that with her hand and im just questioning

As the title says, I want to read fics where there's hybrids or shapeshifters ! I would prefer if the characters are portrayed accurately and if the fics are of minimum 15k words please

TW: suicide, self harm, bad eating habits, bad mental health, low self esteem and of course dependency

Well, I was remembering of a relationship I had when I was younger with an online friend. She was my best friend for years and then my partner, and I valued her A LOT, like, I would have a bad mood all day but the moment she talked to me I would get happy again and I did not notice the pattern, my happiness depended so much on her, once she went 2 days without talking to me (she was busy) and I cried so much and almost threw up from the hopelessness I felt. I was a very mentally unstable person back then, I only had one friend besides her and I was always depressed and having thoughts of self harming and low self esteem. And often she would sooth these thoughts, most days the only thing stopping me from completely spiraling was her but it got to an unhealthy point in which without her support I was not able to survive by myself. Now if she had stayed I don’t know what would have been of my mental health, but what happened at the end was that she stopped talking to me (supposedly because of her parents etc). And I am not exaggerating this, the moment she left I became extremely suicidal. I would have suicidal thoughts daily because I genuinely believed that without her my life had no worth and that I was nothing without her. Right now I could go searching for past texts and I’d find so many of me talking about how much I missed her and how without her I was suffering, I’m reading one rn and I talk abt her like the best thing to have ever been and like I was dying without her. I also stopped eating and began self harming when she left, and I would spent every single day crying and depressed only thinking of her. Eventually this feelings went away but it took 6 months until I was okay without her in my life. But I was so obsessed with her, I loved her so entirely and I believed that all I needed to survive was her, and after this experience I spent a few months scared of making friends because then I’d become dependent again. I am not dependent on anyone now, thankfully. But I was reading descriptions about codependency and they all talk about you risking your mental health to help others, but they don’t talk about you relying your mental health on others to survive, so I’m not sure if this counts?