u/Key-Avocado7824

hi!

asked this question and pulled two of wanda rx, page of pentacles, the moon, ace of cups, ace of swords, page of wands, and ten of pentacles

i also got eight of wands on bottom of deck as advice

some background is that we broke up over 3 months ago after i ended things cuz he was being inconsistent af and we haven’t had any sort of contact whatsoever in over 2 months now.

so my interpretation is that overall there’s like a push and pull in his mind about what to do.
so two of wands rx and the moon both just show that he’s confused rn and doesn’t know what to do or maybe is hiding things so deep down he barely realizes himself, and then page of pentacles either means that it’s cuz he’s more focused on some new opportunity in his life rn or he wants a new start with me but more steady and stable this time.
ace of cups obvi shows an emotions and feelings towards me but then ace of swords rx is maybe that they don’t know how to ttm or approach me or just are super constipated emotionally? idk.
page of wands it’s no shock he’s very lustful (i am too tho so its fine lol) but this is also consistent with his INconsistent behavior in the past with all passion and drive with minimal follow through long term.
ten of pents they do truly want smt stable and maybe long term but it might be deeeeeeeppppo down under all that emotional constipation.
and then eight of wands for advice idk if that means i should wait for a message from him or if i should send one myself?

any help would be really appreciated! thank u sm 💗

hi

i asked my deck "does he think he's in love with me" about an ex after i pulled a spread that said he's going to reach out (knight of cups). i only pulled the one card, the nine of swords upright. how do i interpret this?

thank you!

hi

i did a spread asking about my POI and specifically asked if he “will want to he just friends” and got the world and queen of wands. i didn’t know how to interpret this considering where currently no contact, so any help with this would really be appreciated!

thanks

so i’ve been trying to manifest SP for a few weeks now, i haven’t been doing any crazy methods or anything just affirmations that im a baddie, he wants me so bad, he’s coming back to me, he knows we’re meant to be, thinks of me all the time etc…..and things were going well. i haven’t been stalking his socials or looking at old messages/photos or anything, just knowing that he’s coming back because ofc he is we’re soulmates.

BUT THEN DUN DUN DUNNNNN

last night i had a dream (NIGHTMARE 🫣) where i texted him and asked him about what happened between us and if we could get back together and he texted back “no u lost ur chance, never again” and he basically just kept saying over and over that things were over between us. i also saw him in person in the dream (NIGHTMAREEEE) and he was sitting inf front of me and i asked him if he still had feelings for me and he just looked annoyed and said “ no ive moved on”. i then asked if he lost interest and he said “ofc its been months”.

not totally freaking out cuz this isn’t enough to set back all my progress but what does this all mean??

hi

i’ve been on bupropion for almost a year atp and like 4 months ago started on lexapro. since then ive had crazy dry mouth and my mouth tastes bad frequently, like even a few minutes after brushing my teeth/flossing/tonguescraping/ mouthwash. does anyone have any good fix recommendations ? lexapro has been a lifesaver and i really dont want to get off of it but this is getting very annoying.

thanks!

hi

i drew two cards answering: is he my soulmate? pulled king of cups, five of pentacles reversed

and another two: am i his? ace of wands reversed and three of cups

https://preview.redd.it/k3hatsdmkfzg1.png?width=202&format=png&auto=webp&s=ab6564ab636bf1eb99d71dc77f99831b207a85e5

https://preview.redd.it/9q897djnkfzg1.png?width=256&format=png&auto=webp&s=27365577ae8911a6390ef0cac5d16d4575a3783c

https://preview.redd.it/v8lonjtokfzg1.png?width=350&format=png&auto=webp&s=99b866fa8d7188df85c877a9502873c8d18b88aa

https://preview.redd.it/rnncwj1qkfzg1.png?width=198&format=png&auto=webp&s=3f621c3911b68baa5dbce4964329dc58ce9097ba

my interpretation is that yes for both, but mayb not romantically w three of cups? im not sure so if anyone would be able to help i would appreciate t. thanks!

hi

im super new to tarot and am trying to understand all the cards better. specifically the ten of wands has come up ina. few spreads for me (both upright and rx) and im wondering how to best interpret it? like upright is carryign a heavy burden and struggling, but reversed is that read more as the burden made u collapse and have a breakdown or is it taht you've now released what was once burdening you/weighting u down? im sure it also depends on the surrounding cards but if anyone could explain how they personally interpret it that would be great!

thanks so much!!

it’s been almost 3 months no contact between us now (with liek one instance where i reached out and he responded, but i texted twice after that and got no response over a month ago).

i’ve been feeling pretty decent about my manifesting having an effect on him though i haven’t seen any progress in the 3D. atp im wondering if i should reach out and see where it goes or wait for him ?

any advice would be appreciated

when pulling for "will he reach out?" i got the emperor. for context we've been no contact for a few months after i ended things.

online i've seen mixed things, one that it means he will reach out once things are more stable/secure, and the other is that his ego is high and he's firm in his decision to not reach out. thank u!

hi

was in a situationship/fwb arrangement for a few months before i ended things cuz he didn’t want to commit. it’s now been almost 3 months of basically no contact (with one blip about a month ago, haven’t heard from him since tho).

i’ve been trying to manifest for a little while but idk if i’m doing this right. i see people on here talk about a few days or a few weeks of no contact but it’s been months now and idk if im too late. any advice would be really appreciated

thank you

i 21f met this guy in college 21m off a dating app (bad start). i’d been on it for years and have gone out with dozens of guys but never had sex or even made out with any of them. i have my own personal sexual trauma and eating disorders that has made me very averse to touch and men in general, let alone sex.

we meet and he’s super persistent from the get go about meeting up and me going to his apartment (literally immediately after we matched on the app, that same night). me being naive i thought he just wanted to hang out. i didn’t even consider sex was on the table (stupid ik) cuz every guy id gone out with always wanted to start slow. anyways i tell him i wanna meet somewhere else cuz i dont know him and he said yes of course.

fast forward we’re at this place talking for like 15 minutes and he says “u wanna go back to mine?” and i say sure cuz its kinda late and i figured he just wanted to go somewhere else. we get to his place and now im getting jerky and scared. we have a big night difference (over a foot and a half between us, im a short person and he’s very very tall) and we were in his room and i felt the walls closing in when he stood there and asked to hug me. he said i was so awkward and that we didn’t have to do anything i didnt want. i thought he meant it and we could just hang out. fast forward he keeps asking to kiss me so i give in and let him. we end up doing more stuff after he asks and it feels good so we keep going.

we didn’t have sex tha first night, i was very firm on that; but he kept asking and asking even after i told him i was a virgin and wasn’t ready. he told me that he really really liked me and was so nice and sweet and said he wanted to see where things go.

fast forward, we meet up one more time before we have sex. i mostly initiated it cuz i wanted to do it cuz i trusted him and he knew wha he was doing (he has over 30+ bodies) and cared a lot about making me feel good.

fast forward more, he starts acting super distant and different. he made it clear that he never wanted a relationship from the get go and i knew he was sleeping with other people. i was hurting but i stayed. i gave him everything in hopes i would change his mind. he liked my body, so i gave it to him whenever he wanted. i would offer it when he was taking too long to respond because i knew that’s why he wanted me. all he wanted me for. he stopped being so nice to me. started barely texting. acting distant and not asking me questions or seeming to care about me or my life anymore.

fast forward again to the last time we saw each other. i had cried to him after he told me he doesn’t see us ever being exclusive and he just kept saying that he didn’t do anything wrong and was up front from the beginning (mind u i never accused him of doing anything wrong nor did i blame him for anything, i simply said that i was hurting because of the situation) and didn’t offer any comfort or kind words while i was sobbing to him.

fast forward for the last time (this is 4 months later) he tells me that he doesn’t think about women during his day in general. that he hyperfixates on the women he hooks up with and gets into situationships with for a few days to a few weeks. that he doesn’t care if i get with anyone else and genuinely hopes i find better. that he doesn’t care in general. then while i was staring at the camera wall and was about to cry, he said i looked like i wanted to fuck.

i feel like im valid for being upset and mad at him for that conversation. i would have never slept with him had i known he was only being nice and interested and seeet and caring because he was hyperfixating on me and tha that would only last for a few weeks, yet he continued seeing me for months knowing i had feelings, knowing i cared about him, and knowing i was getting hurt (he knew all of this because i explicitly told him).

i ended things a week after that. he threw everything in my face and told me that if i was hurting it was all on me not him. that i made my own choices. said that i can’t come to him with that shut because it has nothing to do w it h him.

tldr; i hate men.

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hi! wondering what all this means. overall im thinking he's feeling in his emperor energy right now and will reach out when he feels ready but rn he's ina period of reflection and hanging out with friends/going out but not looking for something romantic righ tnow even though deep down he craves a meaningful connection. thanks!

i miss him. we haven’t texted/spoken in a few months after i ended things when he didn’t want to commit and i was getting hurt from casual. thank u

we have been no contact for a few months. i miss him so much.