u/King_Zacian

What We Offer:
• Weekly payouts: $5-$50
• Commission-based earnings with bonus opportunities
• No interview process
• Minimum requirement of 5 working hours per day
• 4 flexible shift options available

Requirements:
• Previous experience is a plus, but beginners who understand the role are welcome
• Must be 18 years old or older (strictly no minors)
• Android device, PC, or laptop required (iOS devices not supported)
• Must have Discord installed for team communication

Please ensure you meet all the requirements before applying.

Click this link to join us:
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What We Offer:
• Chatter position
• Weekly payouts: $5-$50
• Commission-based earnings with bonus opportunities
• No interview process
• Minimum requirement of 5 working hours per day
• 4 flexible shift options available

Requirements:
• Previous experience is a plus, but beginners who understand the role are welcome
• Must be 18 years old or older (strictly no minors)
• Android device, PC, or laptop required (iOS devices not supported)
• Must have Discord installed for team communication

Please ensure you meet all the requirements before applying.

Click this link to join us:
https://discord.gg/W9r9gNHPG

I [25M] have been dating my girlfriend [24F] for less than a year. When I first met her, she seemed very introverted, quiet, polite, and reserved. But as we got closer and started dating, she gradually began showing more of her real personality, and some of the things I've seen have really bothered me.

One of the first incidents happened at a grocery store. She said she was just going to buy a bottle of water. She grabbed one from the refrigerator, opened it immediately, drank the entire thing, and then brought the empty bottle to the cashier to pay for it. The cashier looked surprised, and my girlfriend got irritated and basically said, "I was thirsty. You should be thankful I'm paying for it." I get that she's thirsty and would pay later, but getting irritated because the cashier asked her to pay for it is kinda off putting for me.

This wasn't a one-time thing. Another time, she asked me to accompany her while grocery shopping. When I arrived, I noticed there were already several opened snacks and food items in her cart. She said she was going to pay for them anyway. A cashier confronted us about it, and this time the cashier was noticeably less friendly. My girlfriend didn't argue, but it was still embarrassing.

She also does similar things elsewhere. At a bakery, she'll sometimes tear a loaf of bread in half and start eating it before paying. The incident I remember most happened on the way to a family reunion. We were bringing a tray of pasta to share with relatives. During the drive, she said she was hungry and that pasta was her favorite. Before I could react, she reached into the tray with her bare hand and started eating directly from it. There were plates and utensils available nearby, but she didn't bother using them. She just said that when she's hungry, she can't control herself.

I later mentioned this to her family, and her older sister laughed and said she's always been like that. Apparently this behavior goes back to childhood. Her sister joked that now I'm finally seeing the "real her" and asked whether I could still tolerate it.

The food stuff is weird enough, but honestly what bothers me more is how she acts toward cashiers and retail workers. Whenever someone questions what she's doing, she gets defensive, rude, or acts like they're the problem. That's the part I have the hardest time getting past.

I've brought it up before, but she either laughs it off or says people are making a big deal out of nothing.

Lately I've been wondering whether this is just one of those annoying quirks that couples learn to live with, or if it's the kind of thing that points to a bigger compatibility issue. I'd love to hear from people who've dealt with something similar, especially when it comes to a partner's manners or how they treat other people. What helped you figure out where your limits were?

I had been with my company for 8 years. Over that time, I earned several promotions and was next in line to become a supervisor. My boss relied on me heavily because, honestly, I knew the job better than he did.

Everything changed when a newly hired girl joined the team (wow i guess)

She's around my age, attractive, and quickly became popular around the office. My boss was one of the people who clearly liked her. Even though she worked under me, he would constantly call her over and assign her tasks. The problem was that most of those tasks eventually ended up on my desk, but somehow she always received the credit for the work (like the ferk?)

I put up with it for five months because I was a candidate for the supervisor position, and my boss was the one who had to approve the promotion. No matter how much work I was given, and no matter how often the credit went to her, I stayed quiet because I thought it would pay off.

Instead, she got regularized and I got passed over for the promotion (what did I even expect?).

It felt like I did all the work that helped her succeed. Not only was my work credited to her, but my own efforts were completely overlooked. I honestly thought it would be a win-win situation: she would get regularized, and I would finally get promoted. That never happened.

I couldn't accept it, so I resigned. I can't believe that I put up with that for months. I thank my coworkers and friends for helping me deal with this situation.

My boss didn't want me to leave because, according to him, he really needed me. I told him that his favorite employee was already there, so he could just give all the work to her.

He promised that I'd be promoted after another six months if I stayed. I told him that this was the time I should have been promoted already. Why would I wait another six months?

So I left, even though I didn't have a backup plan.

The funny thing is that even after I resigned, my boss kept messaging me asking how to do certain tasks because he didn't actually know how to handle the work himself. I'm so tired of his bullshit.

I ignored him.

Then, more than a month later, he started calling me repeatedly. When I finally answered, he was angry and accused me of training the girl incorrectly and teaching her the wrong processes.

I asked him how that was possible when he was present during her training and had the entire workflow documented in his email.

That's when the truth came out.

He regretted choosing her because she wasn't actually very competent. She struggled to learn the job, made constant mistakes, and because of that, my boss was also submitting incorrect reports. Now both of them were getting criticized by upper management.

He admitted that he should have valued me more.

Now he's offering me a higher salary and the supervisor position immediately if I come back.

So now I'm wondering: should I return and take the better offer, or should I move on and find a new job? I have eight years of experience, a strong track record, and honestly, it would be nice to work somewhere without the stress of dealing with a boss who played favorites.

It just so happened that right after we bought a car, gas prices started going up. To save money, my boyfriend and I decided to start carpooling. Just to clarify, the car is registered under my name. His only contribution toward the car was driving me around whenever I needed a ride. Also, my boyfriend and I worked at the same office at the start of this story. At first, it worked out pretty well. We were able to offset some of the fuel costs because our neighbors, who worked near our office building, would ride with us.

Eventually, I resigned and found a new job closer to home since we live in the south. I started commuting because it was cheaper than having my boyfriend drive me and then continue all the way to his workplace. I told him to just find additional passengers if he wanted, but to give me the money they paid since the car was ours.

I would ask him every day how many people were riding with him. The passengers didn't pay daily because my boyfriend, being the "nice guy" that he is, told them it was fine to just pay on payday and settle everything at once. I let him handle it.

After about a month, I asked him for the money that had been collected.

He had nothing to give me.

He said he was too nice to ask people for payment and felt awkward collecting from them. According to him, he was just waiting for them to pay voluntarily. He promised he'd be stricter about collecting next time.

That's when I started feeling like something was off.

He was coming home later and later every day. Whenever I checked the gas gauge, I noticed he'd leave with a full tank, but by the time he got home, a huge amount of gas was gone.

I asked him where he was going and why he was using so much gas. He always blamed traffic.

One morning, I was supposed to work only a half-day because I wasn't feeling well. While I was looking out from our terrace, I saw our neighbor couple, the same people I thought were riding with my boyfriend every day, walking down the street.

I was confused because I thought they were part of his carpool. I rushed outside and asked them why they weren't riding with him.

They told me they had stopped carpooling with him a long time ago.

I said that couldn't be true because my boyfriend had never mentioned it. They just shrugged and said they didn't know why he would say otherwise.

Instead of going to work, I went to our old office building and waited for him there.

I didn't catch him arriving with anyone, but I spoke with some of the security guards. They told me they thought my boyfriend and I had already broken up (I occasionally say good morning to them whenever I pass them so we kinda know each other). Apparently, the story he had been telling everyone was that I left my job because we had separated.

And according to them, one of our former coworkers was now his "new girlfriend."

I couldn't believe it.

I had barely transferred to a new job, and he already had a replacement. WTFF

It turns out there wasn't a whole group of passengers at all. He was only driving one person. Suddenly bro everything made sense!! Why there was no carpool money, why he was always coming home late, and why the gas disappeared so quickly when his commute was supposedly just Makati to Muntinlupa. (uy pilipens)

The car was registered in my name, and I paid for every damn bit of it. So I took it back. He was comfortable lying to me while enjoying the perks of something I worked and paid for.

The moment I told him to quit his job, he suddenly started apologizing. Funny enough, he didn't want to resign.

PS: I wrote this in my mother language and then used AI to help me translate and correct any grammatical errors.