u/KitCasey1986

Hey everyone. I'm heading to college in the fall. My boyfriend and I are definitely breaking up before we leave, but I'm trying to decide what to do about the summer.

To be completely honest, I don't love him. The relationship is fine, but I know he has much deeper feelings for me than I do for him. The main reason I'm considering staying with him through the summer is honestly just because the sex is good and it's nice to have that.

But since I know he's more emotionally invested, I'm stuck. Is it worth staying together just for the summer sex, or am I just leading him on and making the eventual breakup way worse for him? Should I just rip the band-aid off and end it now?

Has anyone else stayed in a relationship with an "expiration date" just for the physical side of things? How did it turn out?

Don't crucify me, he knows the expiration on our relationship is set, like it's weird to say it like this but we've talked about it.

I'm going to Ireland with two friends this summer. We are going to be based out of Dublin. The only thing on my must do list is visit Howth, can I get some recommendations for exploring the city?

Not of drinking age yet (bummer and limiting), but I do like history a lot. So thinking of Trinity college visit too.

Open to leaving the city and would love to see some of the country side, just not sure what the best way to do so is. We saw there are a lot of buses that venture out, but not sure we want to be constricted by the schedule or stuck with that many other people.

Maybe someone can suggest a tour guide or like a rented car with driver? We aren't too crazy about renting a car on our own, driving in another country just seems like a problem waiting to happen.

Budget isn't a concern, we've all been saving up for this as our pre-collegeg splurge.

So I got accepted for next year and I'll be an entering freshman.. I have the option to commute or live on campus. Looking for advice on whether or not it's worth it to live off campus or should I just dorm? I can live eat home, but I really don't want to.

Any advice would be helpful. Thanks!