u/KitKat_Dark

So i have been living with my grandma and cousin for about a year give or take. Since like week two of me moving in my cousin has been doing small things to get under my skin. For example, she'll be getting ready for work in the morning and she'll load on perfume in the room we're sharing, turn off the fan (it stays hot in the room), rattling keys and stomping around all while I'm trying to rest because im usually working closing then open the next day or doubles then opening the next day. Some other are turning anything im doing into a horrible awful thing, like seeing my long distance bf (who ive seen maybe four times now and my family has met). She even went as far as to tattle on me to my mom rather than talking to me on multiple occasions (and I'm pretty sure i still have the screenshots of everything).

Thats not even the part that gets me though. She's one of those people who will doing something like what I said then be super kind and friendly and generous right after or she'll just pretend like nothing happened.

Ive talked to a few people about it and we've all kinda got the same idea? I think she's jealous but im not sure of what. It could be the relationship me and my grandma have. We are relatively close. If that's the case then I dont get why she can't js fix that relationship if thats what she wants? Maybe it's some sort of insecurity or something like that? Maybe she feels like shes better and im in her way or something? I dont know. If its not jealousy she's got some kind of mental disorder at this point.

I did see something similar on tiktok, like someone talking about a similar situation and I seen that what shes doing could be some kind of manipulation tactic that narcissists tend to use. From the little bit of research Ive done into narcissists as a whole she fits pretty well, but she also fits into a few other too so idk.

Has anyone else had this issue? Id love to hear your thoughts on it and maybe similar stories.

So i (19F) have been living with my grandma and cousin (22F) for about a year give or take. Since like week two of me moving in my cousin has been doing small things to get under my skin. For example, she'll be getting ready for work in the morning (530-6) and she'll load on perfume in the room we're sharing, turn off the fan (it stays hot in the room), rattling keys and stomping around all while I'm trying to rest because im usually working closing then open the next day or doubles then opening the next day. Some other are turning anything im doing into a horrible awful thing, like seeing my long distance bf (who ive seen maybe four times now and my family has met). She even went as far as to tattle on me to my mom rather than talking to me on multiple occasions (and I'm pretty sure i still have the screenshots of everything).

Thats not even the part that gets me though. She's one of those people who will doing something like what I said then be super kind and friendly and generous right after or she'll just pretend like nothing happened.

Ive talked to a few people about it and we've all kinda got the same idea? I think she's jealous but im not sure of what. It could be the relationship me and my grandma have. We are relatively close. If that's the case then I dont get why she can't js fix that relationship if thats what she wants? Maybe it's some sort of insecurity or something like that? Maybe she feels like shes better and im in her way or something? I dont know. If its not jealousy she's got some kind of mental disorder at this point.

I did see something similar on tiktok, like someone talking about a similar situation and I seen that what shes doing could be some kind of manipulation tactic that narcissists tend to use. From the little bit of research Ive done into narcissists as a whole she fits pretty well, but she also fits into a few other too so idk.

Has anyone else had this issue? Id love to hear your thoughts on it and maybe similar stories.

So i (19F) have been living with my grandma and cousin (22F) for about a year give or take. Since like week two of me moving in my cousin has been doing small things to get under my skin. For example, she'll be getting ready for work in the morning (530-6) and she'll load on perfume in the room we're sharing, turn off the fan (it stays hot in the room), rattling keys and stomping around all while I'm trying to rest because im usually working closing then open the next day or doubles then opening the next day. Some other are turning anything im doing into a horrible awful thing, like seeing my long distance bf (who ive seen maybe four times now and my family has met). She even went as far as to tattle on me to my mom rather than talking to me on multiple occasions (and I'm pretty sure i still have the screenshots of everything).

Thats not even the part that gets me though. She's one of those people who will doing something like what I said then be super kind and friendly and generous right after or she'll just pretend like nothing happened.

Ive talked to a few people about it and we've all kinda got the same idea? I think she's jealous but im not sure of what. It could be the relationship me and my grandma have. We are relatively close. If that's the case then I dont get why she can't js fix that relationship if thats what she wants? Maybe it's some sort of insecurity or something like that? Maybe she feels like shes better and im in her way or something? I dont know. If its not jealousy she's got some kind of mental disorder at this point.

I did see something similar on tiktok, like someone talking about a similar situation and I seen that what shes doing could be some kind of manipulation tactic that narcissists tend to use. From the little bit of research Ive done into narcissists as a whole she fits pretty well, but she also fits into a few other too so idk.

Has anyone else had this issue? Id love to hear your thoughts on it and maybe similar stories.