u/Kitty_Meow0303

finally got done with my interview today at central campus for bsc biotech and chem hons and the interview went fine i guess. i did not have to wait for the interview at all cuz there were not a lot of people in my course in general i suppose and there were around 3-4 panels of interviewers in the room and only 2 of them were occupied and one of those two were engaged with me. what im trying to say is i guess not a lot of people have applied for the course i chose though im not sure if its because this was the last round and maybe the course strength is not a lot either? i was asked the general stuff like introduction and why christ and they asked me to pick any topic of my choice for the mp from the subjects i chose and i asked them to suggest a topic for me and they gave me RNA which was pretty easy so that went fine. after that they just kept on asking me questions mostly from genetics and chemistry, no pure biology questions though i was expecting some. then they just wished me goodluck and said i was done. the interview was long enough i guess and they asked me a lot of subject related questions; i could pretty much answer all of them though i might have seemed nervous and a bit underconfident maybe. they asked me to draw chemical structures and stuff which i wasnt expecting but nothing too difficult. idk if i will get in but i hope so. what do u guys think?

also does anyone know how soon the results of the interview are declared?

me and my ex broke up a bit more than a month ago and i have cut off all contact with him and blocked him everywhere recently and i am doing pretty fine otherwise but i find myself unblocking to go check if his following went up over and over (this gives me an idea abt whether he followed a new girl) and i am pretty annoyed at myself for doing that too but i just cant help it. i used to ask some mutuals to show me his following but i realised i cant continue being this obsessive and it just hurts me at the end of the day so why put myself in that position so i really hold myself back in that aspect but i don’t know about this one

i really don’t want to keep checking his following. i wish he could have just blocked me too so that i couldn’t see it but again i have too many accounts and ones that he doesn’t know of so that probably wouldn’t help much.

guys how do i stop myself from being bothered by this?

my bf broke up with me last month after we dated for almost an year and i would say it definitely came as a shocker to me cuz firstly it was between boards and secondly we were not having any major issues in our relationship (well atleast i believed so at that time). we were both each other’s first partners ever and he especially did not have any sort of female interaction before so u could say i was almost his first everything with a girl. we were from the same school and got to know each other after a school trip- i was the one who noticed and followed him first and it just went on from that. our major relationship issues were his friend group- most of the fights we had were probably regarding his friends saying shit about me and him never standing up to them, some shit i saw him discuss about me in front of his friends before we started dating and then regarding him lying to me. i am not saying i was completely faultless, i might have come off as too controlling at times when i used to be suspicious that hes lying to me or anything regarding his friends but i had my reasons for that as i mentioned. i always believed in communicating our issues directly, i never tried to supress anything but he could never give me the reassurance that i needed and he always wanted to avoid any kind of communication regarding this. i always gave him the benefit of doubt tho cuz i thought he could change if he truly realised, but i guess he could just not handle being confronted about his faults anymore so he decided breaking up was the easy way out.

the day he broke up with me his first reason was that he cant do long distance cuz he finds just chatting and talking over the phone daily is too boring and he would get bored in a ldr as such, then he went on about saying how he lost feelings, how he thinks hes just avoidant so he’ll just not be in a relationship ever again. he mentioned this so strongly that he doesn’t want to be in a relationship at all and that he doesn’t like making efforts and trying and shit. he suggested being just “friends” and talking normally which i agreed at that time cuz i was too attached but eventually i could see the change, he started being too rude and would talk about wanting to find “baddies” in college and then one day decided it’s time for us to stop talking cuz apparently he does not like talking to me at all so i said fine. i did not text him once but we were still following each other and he texted whenever he wanted to about random shit and i would normally reply but thats it. then two days ago he decided that its “unprofessional” for us to keep following each other so we unfollowed each other at last. we did have a proper conversation too and i asked him about whether he found someone new and he replied that no cuz he doesn’t really follow or talk to girls but definitely sounded kike he wanted to (opposed to barely a month ago where he did not want to be in a relationship ever again lol). now he suddenly follows his old crush that we indeed talked about while we were together and who he denied having any interest for or that she wasnt even her type lol.

i am not implying anything nor am i blaming anyone here but to me it seems like i just got played for a whole fucking year and all i did for him was boost his ego and make him go from the guy with 0 female interaction to one who believes he could get his old crush right this instant. its not wrong for me to think that he never actually had feelings for me right?

soo my bf broke up with me last month after almost a year of dating, but we still used to talk sometimes and follow each other on instagram too until about 2 days ago, we stopped talking and unfollowed each other. today he followed his old “crush” who he did not even remember or follow before we dated, i was the one who searched and found her. we did have talks regarding her while we were dating and he always used to deny that shit saying he never had a crush on her and whatnot. am i supposed to believe that he somehow just happened to follow her right after we unfollowed each other and that it means nothing? i don’t know how u guys see it but for me this is in a way cheating. or is it not?