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AITA for not sending my brother 500$ because he got evicted from his house and now wants help to rent a van for him and his girlfriend( he also says if I don’t he will come camp outside my house and get me kicked out ) He has been like this for years and I’ve gotten a restraining order on him in the past but now he’s contacting me again after finding my new address that I spent months trying to get into and any like thing he does will ruin that

AITAH for telling my husband that we can’t keep living with his family, being full time caregivers for his grandparents when we both work. We also live with his mother who also works full time because of the cost of living in Australia, whenever we are not working it’s doing everything for his grandma especially because she can’t do things herself but ama herself out of the hospital for a cigarette and can move herself if she wants one bad enough. My husband feels horrible that she’s not well but he can’t spend his life doing this but apparently me saying that makes me an AH

Am I the A H for not going to pick up my husbands grandmother from hospital after the hospital told us she wasn’t ready to leave ( for context she can’t walk or do anything for herself and it’s been going on for at least a month, she went to the hospital because she fell and hit her head and couldn’t speak properly after , my husband did end up getting his grandfather to go get her anyway )