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28F, 5’5”, 159 lbs. Looking to lose 10 lbs before my engagement and get to 130 lbs by my fall 2028 wedding. Where would you start?

Hi everyone. I’m 28F, 5’5”, and currently around 159 lbs. My long-term goal is to get down to about 130 lbs by my wedding in fall 2028, but my first goal is to lose around 10 lbs before I get engaged in the next few months.

For context, I’ve never been below 145lbs in my life and that was probably in my freshman year of high school. My heaviest was around 194lbs at the end of high school, but for the last 5+ years I’ve stayed been between 150-160lbs.

My boyfriend and I have been looking at rings, so I know the proposal is probably happening sometime soon. I’d love to feel more confident when that day comes and in all the photos afterward.

I think my biggest struggles are that I work a 9-5 office job (with an hour commute), so I’m sitting for most of the day, and I have a hard time meal prepping or coming up with healthy lunches that are easy to bring to work. I also do Club Pilates a couple of times a week, which I really enjoy, and I have access to a gym, but I honestly don’t know how to use most of the machines, so I end up avoiding it - so really Pilates has been my only consistent workout and that’s been since January 2026.

I would greatly appreciate any advice I can get especially for EASY meal prep ideas and an EASY fitness plan that can be stuck to without getting boring or burning out and giving up.

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u/Known-Detective-126 — 22 hours ago

Looking for a Small LV Purse with Versatility

My first Louis Vuitton purchase was a Speedy 25 in Damier Ebene, and now I’m looking for a smaller purse that can be worn as both a shoulder bag and a crossbody, but is also dressy enough for dinners or nicer occasions.

My first choice was the Pochette Félicie because I love the look of the chain strap and the included inserts. My only concerns are whether it’s too small and if the flap tends to pop open when it’s full.

I like the Pochette Accessoires because it’s a classic and I prefer the zip closure, but it’s really designed as a shoulder bag. I’ve seen people attach the short strap and chain together to wear it crossbody—has anyone done this? Does it look okay, or does it feel like a workaround?

The Liv seems like the trendiest option and has the most room, but my hesitation is that the leather crossbody strap makes it feel a little more casual than the Félicie.

I’ve also come across a few other options while browsing (pictured). I’m planning to go to the store to try everything on, but I’d love to hear your opinions first. Which would you choose and why?

(Ideally, I’d love to build a collection with different styles for different occasions, but for now I’m hoping to find one bag that’s versatile enough to work for almost everything.)

u/Known-Detective-126 — 10 days ago

Louis or Gucci?

Help me decide! If you prefer the Gucci, beige or dark brown? I might prefer the dark brown but I also prefer the gold hardware ugh!

u/Known-Detective-126 — 13 days ago

Pochette Félicie or Pochette Accessoires?

Help me decide! I like the Accessoires for its simplicity, capacity, and closure, but I also like the Felicie for its crossbody chain and additional wallets…

u/Known-Detective-126 — 13 days ago