u/Kozak515

I’m 31, 5ft 9” 220 lbs. I dropped 40 pounds the last year and looking to do more. I’m currently in school, but don’t know if my heart is in what I’m doing right now.
I’ve been looking into firefighting for a while, and I think Wildland Firefighting is what I want to do most.

In my position, what’s the first thing I should look into to start this process? Whats the timeline look like?

I (31M) went on 4 dates with 4 women in 3 days, and I got to say I don't think I'm built for this. I met one woman who is so unbelievably amazing, and I had such an incredible time I've already seen her twice. One woman wasn't a great personality match for me, one was borderline a catfish, and one we were practically ready to jump each other's bones within a couple hours of knowing each other.

Each date I'm giving 100% effort, emotional availability, and giving decent and sustained effort in getting to know them. I've been on the app for a week, and I truly don't know how anyone can do this for more than a week.

I'm so emotionally drained, I really want to date one, I really want to sleep with another, I already have matches planning dates next weekend, and I feel so disgusting talking to so many people at once.

I know, this sounds like the absolute worst person to date (I probably am). I recently had to leave a very short term relationship because my partner was an Anxious-Attachment Gemini. I really liked her, but she stress tested the relationship way too early, and I feel like I needed a stronger foundation to go through that.
I felt all the typical triggers an Avoidant would go through, but navigated it until she blocked me on Instagram because I didn't text her back for a few hours.

Anyways, any advice for me to date?

I just got here for a friends wedding. I just parked at an air bnb and my fucking headphones were by my door, and when I opened the door they fell directly into the storm drain on the sidewalk.
What are my options here? Do I call somebody or can I open these grates without much difficulty?