u/KurosPool

I’ll try to keep it short.

I’m a fresh graduate. Landed a job been working for half a year. First place I’m working at. I’m overworked like fucking crazy. My boss is bad.
Doesn’t give a shit about anything but the deadline has to be met no matter what.

I’ve worked under a different boss temporarily bc a project stopped and even tho it was super stressful I actually enjoyed it. I love the work place but hate the boss. She’s extremely aggressive, and hostile, extremely stressful.
Been working 10-12 hours daily for a while and the commute is 1.5h. Clearly doesn’t give a shit.

Idk what to do. Idk if I have grounds to ask for a transfer, they could fire me claiming it’s better to give her someone new rather than do what I ask for. She’s obviously way more valuable to them than me.

Idk if it’s smart to give out much info about the situation cuz what if someone recognizes me.

I started sobbing today while talking to another coworker when asked how things are going.

Ps- she got one person fired. One person quit bc of her. And one transferred out of her team over the course of her being a boss. They know how she is. I can see that she holds back a bit but I’m not fine when I barely see my family throughout the week and have to work under extremely stressful circumstances, because “that means I have responsibility now”.

היי
אני מחפשת עבודה להכנסה נוספת. עוברת דברים קשים בחיים וצריכה הכנסה נוספת עם תנאים יחסית גמישים.

שליחות וולט- זה יכול להתאים לאישה? יש משהו דומה שאולי אפשר לעשות מהבית או בלי להסתובב ויחסית בטוח לאישה?

אשמח לעצות.

היי
אידרכלית פה, עובדת בתחום, לא הרבה זמן.
מעניין מה אלה שלמדו אדריכלות עושים עכשיו בחיים. תחום מאוד מעייף, שעות ארוכות ולחץ כל הזמן.

It’s been a few months since I lost the closest friend I had. I handled a situation very badly, and I ended up losing her (before anyone suggests. The situation isn’t salvageable).

I miss you a lot. I saw your friends post about your birthday and I saw how happy you are. I wish you’ll stay happy. I miss you so much.

I wish I didn’t fuckup. I wish I didn’t handle it the way I did. I wish I wasn’t that much of a burden to you.

I’ll never have someone like you in my life again. I wish you happiness.

קצת בדיכאון מיוקרת החיים פה. רוב המשכורת שלי הולכת על פשוט להתקיים. אני דואגת אם יהיה לי דירה משלי בחיים בכלל במצב הזה נראה שלא אבל אני רואה את כולם עם רכב פרטי ודירה בבעלותם ואני מרגישה מאוד מאחורה.

More of a thought sharing thing.

I’ll start off by saying I’m middle eastern, so I’m between the unmarried minority as the marriage age is early 20s here.

The idea of marriage is terrifying to me. Being with one person for one lifetime sounds scary. My mom didn’t live a good life. Long story short my dad used to be abusive (not anymore) and she used to be the financial pillar of the house. Which is unusual for a middle eastern house hold. She’s still with my dad but clearly could’ve been way happier elsewhere.

I have someone. He’s amazing, kind and everything. But I always fear that one day he’ll change. He’ll stop loving me, he’ll be a different person.

How do I get rid of those feelings? How do I stop worrying about “leaving my comfort zone”. Will they go away? I have briefly shared them with him. But not in such detail