u/LameLamassu

WIBTA if I was to stop engaging with my sexually aggressive "femcel" friend?

I (34M) have moved and began running new D&D games in a local town. I hit it off with one of players (22F) who is self described as a "femcel" and "girlfailure". I really don't think she's as bad as she makes out.

I am out of a long-term relationship and I am NOT looking for anything of the sort, nevermind from someone who is ten years younger than me.

However, this player left my D&D game due to mental health issues but has been showing up to less invested nerd events where I see her pretty regularly.

For some reason, recently, she's started sending me very sexual messages, culminating yesterday in her sending me a bunch of messages saying that if I can to hang out with her on the weekend she'd do sexual things for me.

I said that I wasn't interested in that and she hasn't responded since.

I am really not sure what to do in this situation.

WIBTAH if I set a boundary that if she talks to me about this I will stop talking with her completely?

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u/LameLamassu — 7 days ago

WIBTA if I was to stop engaging with my sexually aggressive "femcel" friend?

I (34M) have moved and began running new D&D games in a local town. I hit it off with one of players (22F) who is self described as a "femcel" and "girlfailure". I really don't think she's as bad as she makes out.

I am out of a long-term relationship and I am NOT looking for anything of the sort, nevermind from someone who is ten years younger than me.

However, this player left my D&D game due to mental health issues but has been showing up to less invested nerd events where I see her pretty regularly.

For some reason, recently, she's started sending me very sexual messages, culminating yesterday in her sending me a bunch of messages saying that if I can to hang out with her on the weekend she'd do sexual things for me.

I said that I wasn't interested in that and she hasn't responded since.

I am really not sure what to do in this situation.

WIBTAH if I set a boundary that if she talks to me about this I will stop talking with her completely?

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u/LameLamassu — 7 days ago
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