Need some clarity about something intimate
This has been on my mind for quite some time, so I thought I would ask here and see if anyone else has had a similar experience.
I have a boyfriend and we have only made out so far, nothing penetrative. He sometimes asks me to try masturbatingor fingering myself because I had told him that I have never really done it before.
The thing is I have tried using a menstrual cup before and I couldn’t insert it much. Even now, when I try fingering, I can only manage one finger and even that feels a little painful. I have never had penetrative sex before.
I initially thought maybe it was because my hymen is still intact, but honestly I don’t know if that’s actually how it works. I am also a bit scared that something might be wrong with me.
Has anyone here had a similar experience, especially before having penetrative sex and later figured out what was causing it? and how did u manage it? Is this something that can be normal, or should I see a gynaecologist about it? I am scared 🙂