u/Large_Advisor9343

Need some clarity about something intimate

This has been on my mind for quite some time, so I thought I would ask here and see if anyone else has had a similar experience.

I have a boyfriend and we have only made out so far, nothing penetrative. He sometimes asks me to try masturbatingor fingering myself because I had told him that I have never really done it before.

The thing is I have tried using a menstrual cup before and I couldn’t insert it much. Even now, when I try fingering, I can only manage one finger and even that feels a little painful. I have never had penetrative sex before.

I initially thought maybe it was because my hymen is still intact, but honestly I don’t know if that’s actually how it works. I am also a bit scared that something might be wrong with me.

Has anyone here had a similar experience, especially before having penetrative sex and later figured out what was causing it? and how did u manage it? Is this something that can be normal, or should I see a gynaecologist about it? I am scared 🙂

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u/Large_Advisor9343 — 8 days ago

Need some clarity about something intimate

This has been on my mind for quite some time, so I thought I would ask here and see if anyone else has had a similar experience.

I have a boyfriend and we have only made out so far, nothing penetrative. He sometimes asks me to try masturbatingor fingering myself because I had told him that I have never really done it before.

The thing is I have tried using a menstrual cup before and I couldn’t insert it much. Even now, when I try fingering, I can only manage one finger and even that feels a little painful. I have never had penetrative sex before.

I initially thought maybe it was because my hymen is still intact, but honestly I don’t know if that’s actually how it works. I am also a bit scared that something might be wrong with me.

Has anyone here had a similar experience, especially before having penetrative sex and later figured out what was causing it? and how did u manage it? Is this something that can be normal, or should I see a gynaecologist about it? I am scared 🙂

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u/Large_Advisor9343 — 8 days ago

Can a stick on bra really be reused multiple times?

I am thinking of buying a adhesive stick on bra, at first I wasn't convenced about it's durability, but lately many people use on daily basis. Can a adhesive bra really last long for multiple uses..if u have used it what was your experience..will it cause skin issues? Can you recommend me a good brand for these stick on bras?

Any help would be grateful :)

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u/Large_Advisor9343 — 2 months ago

I wanna know from women who have dated (or are dating) men who were raised by a single mom. How is the relationship dynamics? what things you found good and what things were bad by being with this person?

Please help this sister out, I am currently seeing a guy who was raised by a single mom, and he genuinely seems like a good person so far. But I am curious about how this kind of upbringing can sometimes show up in relationships.

Would love to hear your stories!

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u/Large_Advisor9343 — 6 months ago