u/LastShelter9481

There are some things that are not supposed to be said out loud. My BF (39M) and I (34F) have been dating for a few months now when we were having a snack after our jog out of the blue he pointed out my big belly. In his words “Ang laki oh” pointing at my tummy. I am 5.1” weighing around 60kg, Its safe to say I am not thin but to say that to my face felt so wrong. I was suppose to eat my dessert by due to the comment it made me lose my appetite and just wanted to go home. On the walk back he was baffled why I was so quiet and did not say anything during our way back and asked is there something wrong like you didn’t just ruin my entire night. I made an excuse that i had work to finish and went back home.

I (34F) am dating my boyfriend (38M) for over 4 months now. At first as all relationships are in the beginning it was all fun and laughters. He came from the big 5 schools here in NCR so i thought his IQ is greater than mine. I always had a thing for smart guys as I find myself always craving for intellectual conversations and I want to be with someone I can learn more from. As the days go by I am slowly seeing that we don’t really match idealisms and thought processes. I constantly find myself having to explain even things i consider self explanatory. Our humor does not match, our point of views does not align and sadly even our financial principles. Another disappointing thing for me is his EQ, he does not know how to self regulate his emotions and i constantly find myself being embarrassed by his reactions in public. I broke up several time with him but he does not want to accept it. Im so tired of this relationship.. And I know there will be people commenting just to leave him, i tired but he keeps coming at the place where i stay and if i don’t talk to him he makes a scene or pesters my family. I am thinking of a plan where there will be no drama and commotion. Just wanted to dump these and get it off mu chest.