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hello uh im f16- okay so im in a relationship with someone who has VERY high antisocial traits and has severe conduct disorder, anyways, hes been acting off and weird and whatever, so.. even though i am ashamed to admit it.. ive been asking google ai about it, ive given it very specific details about my relationship, everything it could possibly know to form an “accurate” opinion, well, ive been worried about him breaking up with me recently, hes become cold and distant.. more than usual, and i asked google ai about it who ive had an extended history with, and i told it all his behaviors and other factors that play into down to a t, and it said “no he wont break up with you heres why hes doing this and whats causing it blah blah blah“ then i opened a fresh new google ai chat, and i gave it the same details and everything (not the exact same, but you get the point) and it basically said “uhh yea he wants to leave you hes just holding onto you for stability blah blah blahhhh” and now im panicking EVEN MORE.

im a 16yo girl, i have an iphone xr, and ive had it since december of 2021, i got it for christmas, and now? it SUCKS, it has a giant hole in the middle of it (its not giant actually its small) in like may of this year i got so pissed off bc my phone kept lagging like crazy that i took a metal perfume bottle and hit the middle of it, overestimating how strong the glass was, and now i cant use the top half of my screen at all, but now to things that arent caused by me.. every. single. day.. multiple times a day it’ll move on its own, open apps on its own, one time it turned on airplane mode and turned my wifi off, on its own, it will open imessage and call my boyfriend on its own, and it’ll happen at like 6am when hes asleep so he gets woken up by it! its SO annoying. My mom even said i NEED a new phone, but my dad refuses to buy it because he has ”no money” (he spends his money on expensive pre workout and shoes) and idk why my mom cant get it, and i REALLY want a pink iphone 13 so i can have ios 26 because i love the new layout design, uuugh i hate this phone so much, also sometimes when im putting my password in my phone will decide its a great time to act possessed and start putting in my password by itself which ultimately locks me out for 15+ minutes.🫩

edit: i forgot to mention, because i got this when i was 11, obviously i had parental controls.. and both my mom & stepdad had an iphone at the time, now they both have androids and my mom ditched her iphone and forgot to remove the controls, everything was taken off besides my ability to download apps without her permission, ive had to take drastic measures to download instagram on my phone using u3tools, but she cant even remember my screentime passcode because she would change it so much.

okay hi, i just started playing centaura with my bf, and hes absolutely cracked at it, so i always get like self conscious when i play it cuz im not very good at shooters, but its a really fun game so i wanna get better at it so i dont seem like a loser when we play tg, what are some ways i could get better? like strategies and stuff like that.

I posted this here because i originally posted it somewhere else and a mod told me this would be a better place?? sorry if it isnt😭

Hello, im a 16yo girl who has (diagnosed) bpd, and my boyfriend has conduct disorder with high antisocial traits (he told me his psychologist told him hes on track to developing aspd) okay so anyways, we are long distance, just a state apart, we’ve met up once in april, and we‘ve been together for a year. I always have this lingering fear that he’ll get bored of me and leave because i know that chronic boredom comes with aspd (im treating this like he does have aspd because he exhibits literally all of the symptoms) and i fear that me being an emotional wreck after every single little thing i perceive as him doing “wrong” will cause him to drift away, which would be understandable because i feel like thats a normal reaction, our relationship isn’t exactly the most stimulating thing in the whole world which i also feel is normal because to me relationships shouldn’t be exciting 24/7, but i cant shake the feeling that hes just getting bored of me and will slowly start to pull himself away.. what causes me to spiral over this is, he takes a while to respond, he isnt very chatty a lot, but he does that and acts like that a lot, sometimes he’s extremely affectionate for a couple days then he goes back to being somewhat cold and distant, i understand he has his own life, his own struggles but i cant tell if its just me being paranoid or if he’s genuinely getting bored, what could i do to add some like excitement to our relationship?? also sorry if my grammar and punctuation is terrible, im currently writing this after a small panic attack so im kind of scatterbrained 😭

okay edit: i realized the things i listed that cause me to think he’s getting bored can be like relatively normal, so for more context, hes just dry sometimes and things he would usually respond to, like me showing a picture of myself as a baby he usually would say “awwww” but now he just doesnt say anything, or i’ll talk about things im excited for (like getting my nose pierced tomorrow) he also wont respond… and last night i vented to him about some stuff and a little while after i asked if he was still awake because he never responded, and he just said “dunno what to say” but he usually always gives me advice and stuff, i dont know its just a mix of little things, who knows maybe im reading WAY to deep into everything and im just getting myself worked up over nothing.

Hello, im a 16yo girl who has (diagnosed) bpd, and my boyfriend has conduct disorder with high antisocial traits (he told me his psychologist told him hes on track to developing aspd) okay so anyways, we are long distance, just a state apart, we’ve met up once in april, and we‘ve been together for a year. I always have this lingering fear that he’ll get bored of me and leave because i know that chronic boredom comes with aspd (im treating this like he does have aspd because he exhibits literally all of the symptoms) and i fear that me being an emotional wreck after every single little thing i perceive as him doing “wrong” will cause him to drift away, which would be understandable because i feel like thats a normal reaction, our relationship isn’t exactly the most stimulating thing in the whole world which i also feel is normal because to me relationships shouldn’t be exciting 24/7, but i cant shake the feeling that hes just getting bored of me and will slowly start to pull himself away.. what causes me to spiral over this is, he takes a while to respond, he isnt very chatty a lot, but he does that and acts like that a lot, sometimes he’s extremely affectionate for a couple days then he goes back to being somewhat cold and distant, i understand he has his own life, his own struggles but i cant tell if its just me being paranoid or if he’s genuinely getting bored, what could i do to add some like excitement to our relationship?? also sorry if my grammar and punctuation is terrible, im currently writing this after a small panic attack so im kind of scatterbrained 😭

okay edit: i realized the things i listed that cause me to think he’s getting bored can be like relatively normal, so for more context, hes just dry sometimes and things he would usually respond to, like me showing a picture of myself as a baby he usually would say “awwww” but now he just doesnt say anything, or i’ll talk about things im excited for (like getting my nose pierced tomorrow) he also wont respond… and last night i vented to him about some stuff and a little while after i asked if he was still awake because he never responded, and he just said “dunno what to say” but he usually always gives me advice and stuff, i dont know its just a mix of little things, who knows maybe im reading WAY to deep into everything and im just getting myself worked up over nothing.

Hello, I’m a 16yo female and for a while ive been experiencing extremely uncomfortable pain and aches in my lower back, hip, and neck, the only way i can seem to relieve it is by contorting my body in a way that’s difficult for me to do and it only relieves the pain while i do it then the pain comes back. It’s gotten to the point where i start to cry because i cant handle it, we dont have any pain relievers at my house and ive been begging my dad to take me to urgent care (he is tomorrow) and ive looked all over the internet for reasons why im experiencing this and i cant find a straight answer, it gets worse the more i think about it but i cant stop thinking about it because of how uncomfortable it is, i would really appreciate if someone could maybe give me an answer?