u/LatterArugula1977

So far in my experience, west coast express, tata ers express, all are packed with northern friends in sleeper without tickets. So i am considering to not opt those trains in future.

But generally does all trains in the route of chennai to kerala that comes from north like these. I am new to train travelling.

The moment you are born, you enter into suffering. I learned this from Buddhism, and looking into reality, we have built and made so many things to escape suffering. That is what we have evolved to now.

But as Buddhism says, the moment you are born you suffer, and I see that in my life. Whatever I get, I only stay satisfied briefly, and I can't accept suffering, so I look for new things to end it.

So basically, you try to evade a thing that is born with you for your whole life. So, how can you end suffering in life? The answer I came to was death, but Buddha said that when you die, you reincarnate to live the next life (and i take that would be instant Reincarnation, if there is no concept of time passing during when you are not alive). So even after death, you won't be free from suffering.

Therefore, the thing that I evade in life is not possible to be removed. Then what is the next step? Logically, if I can't remove suffering, then I would like to reduce and accept it.

In my understanding, suffering comes from the mind; it comes from both the physical aspect and the mental aspect of a person. So, I need to train my mind to be better against suffering. And I need to do financially well enough to make my physical body experience less suffering.

TL;DR: Suffering cant be removed and Since all suffering is not equal, I have to find the things that are causing the suffering in my life and reduce them. I also need to be better at dealing with suffering. That is the only way I am finding a solution.