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Best friend said as a "joke" I look like a dude.

Context: we were talking about being single and relationships and stuff then she mentioned another trans girl has recently gotten single but then she pointed out her ex was a dude and they might be heterosexual" and then said "as a joke" that it wouldn't matter in my case because I look like a dude anyway. Mind saying I'm 9 years into HRT. I said it's hurtful to say, like it's a borderline thing to say on the expensive of my passing, it's the punchline, I don't really see a joke there, am I overreacting when I'm hurt my best friend would say that to me? I would never *think* to make that joke to a trans person.

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u/Laylapet — 14 hours ago

Anyone in Basel?

Looking for friends near or in Basel. 31y old, transitioned for almost 9y, love drawing, watching anime, reading manga, playing videogames and chess, feel free to message, preferred way of communication is Discord. Cheers.

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u/Laylapet — 25 days ago

How to transfer my email to a another provider?

I'm done with outlook. Constantly log-in issues, constantly being forced to send codes around, constantly being harassed with two- and three and four factor authentification nonsense with pins and this and that. How do I just move on and take all my emails with me. Thanks.

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u/Laylapet — 1 month ago

My take on the trolley problem visualising anti-natalism

Thought I'd do something. You can either not procreate and end suffering or procreate with the potential of an infinite chain of offspring lol

u/Laylapet — 2 months ago

RA remission, question.

Hi everyone. Back in 2020 in October I started to have elbow pain. Then the next few days, more joints started to hurt, the knee, the other elbow, than it got worse and worse and then it started to include my fingers. I went to the doctor, like twice I think because the pain so bad, especially in the morning, I couldn't move. I felt mummified, it was a 10/10 pain. I got referred to a hospital for checkups and within a month I was on immunosuppressive medication. A few months later, the condition stopped causing issues. I don't know the exact time line anymore but after approximately 6 months since the first symptoms started, the pain completely gone and the doctors were, alright, let's try to phase it out then. Which we did. Pain never returned. It's been 5 years now. So I'm curious, since RA doesn't have a cure? Am I in remission and is it possible it could all come back? Like, I've always been asking myself that, the doctors gave me no definitive answers since I'm free of symptoms that's all that matters I guess but I'm just curious, if maybe I'm without medication and in remission because I got extremely fast treatment compared to many others it seems. Like I've read stories of people taking months to get diagnosed and treated properly with immunosuppressive medication. Anyway, thanks!

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u/Laylapet — 2 months ago