u/LeftBread9868

As someone who loves love and hearing about people’s love stories, I really loved this subreddit when I found it. A place where couples can come and post about their love and talk about their experiences in interracial relationship. I thought it was so wholesome and cute.

But slowly it’s been turning into a really negative space. I went from seeing cute posts of people showing their love and giving relationship advise, to the following:

•posts bashing Asian women for dating white men
•bashing black women for wanting to date anyone that’s not black
•constant misogynoir and emasculation of Asian men in the comments
•fetishization of Asian men, Asian women and black women
•using this subreddit as a dating site

I miss when it was just happy couples posting about how they found love. I know we still get some post like these, but I feel like the balance has shifted.

/sorry, rant over. Just sad seeing one of my favourite subs turn so negative.

Amanda Batula
Ava Dash
Megan king Edmond’s
Sally from Southern Charm

I’ve noticed a similarity in the women Kyle has been hooking up with recently. They are all women who (in MY opinion), want to be “looked after” by the men in their life, whether their father or partner.

It’ll be really interesting to see if Kyle could ever be with a woman who has her own shit going on like Lindsey, Ciara or Paige.

Hear me out before you all come for me 😂.

I always kinda felt (lil) bad for her, imagine when you were growing up your family were connected to Carters, Jenner’s and kardashians, they were literally Hip-Hop royalty but because of your fathers/mothers stupidity your family lost all money, respect and the same A-listers you grew up with don’t even acknowledge your families existence.

I’m getting the vibe that she’s desperate to regain the fame and connections her family had
In the late 90s/early 2000s. In the first season she didn’t think the show would garner her that fame but now because of Paige, Hannah and Ciara’s success, she’s realised can gain fame through her own name via Bravo

Edit : Sorry about the typo in the heading, I was typing to fast