u/Legal_Sport_2399

I’ll have an hour gap between my fall classes and was wondering if the school cafeteria was good or if yall go somewhere else/bring your own.

This would be my first job. I’m premed and need the experience/exposure.

All of the reviews saying it’s a toxic workplace, has a high turnover, and a “mean girl, micromanaging“ culture.

What do yall think? Are most scribing jobs like that anyways so I should just go for it?

On top of that they’d have me commuting to different locations (some are far and idk if they’d accept my request not to be sent there).

any advice appreciated!

2 year online friendship turned into a confession of feelings and some relationshipy things but with no clear title, commitment, or communication. How do I end this “friendship?” After we said I cannot have this as a real relationship I stopped reaching out but he texts me every few days with a dry “hi hru” or vague signals that I don’t understand (which he denies). He doesn’t want to talk abt us. I think he moved on but thinks I want to remain friends. Why else would he be texting me? He clearly doesn’t want a relationship bc he isn’t fighting for me or putting in effort to talk about it. It’s like he’s throwing me breadcrumbs just to keep me guessing and somewhat emotionally involved. It’s working.)

1. Do I unfriend him?

2. Do I write a goodbye letter?

3. Do I keep not reaching out and replying dry to their texts?

4. Do I try to talk abt it with them? Ask questions? Start a discussion to get closure?

5. Do I be their “friend” and text back enthusiastically? What prevents me from doing this is I am going crazy out of my mind but he is clearly unaffected and this is just “fun” for him or “being nice” as a friend. I hate that we can’t be together but it’s not a big deal for him (or so it seems from the evidence).

Questions, insights, comments, advice, stories welcome!!!!! Please help me. And remember it’s only online so I do not have visual clues of their behavior, only texts.

Is it hard? TIPS PLEASE!!!!