u/LegitimateMine8378

Millennial working mothers can you please tell about the trend in relations?

Do serious relationships exist? Does real love exist?

Being a 38 old working mother, married for the second time in 2022, I still don't feel 'loved' .. being cheated, neglected, I really want to understand what the millennial working mothers feel..

1. What are your expectations from your partners?

2. Do any of you feel emotionally devasted due to some of the actions/ reactions of your spouse?

3. How do you manage to work the marriage happily?

Is anyone there to respond?

Hi

I'm looking for Kolkata based real people for chatting, meeting over a cup of coffee, real friendship kind of thing.

Any lonely soul here who wants to share his/ her story, wish to listen to my part as well?

Hi

I'm looking for Kolkata based real people for chatting, meeting over a cup of coffee, real friendship kind of thing.

Any lonely soul here who wants to share his/ her story, wish to listen to my part as well?

I m 38,F, married, have kids too. Any woman of my age available here for chatting, gossiping, movies?

I am 38 F, financially independent, married for the second time with this person since July 2022. This is also his second marriage. Both of us are having one daughter from our first marriages. My daughter stays with us and his daughter stays with her mother, his ex-wife.

In 2023 our daughter was born. And that is the time when I found him cheating, caught red handed. Unfortunately I came accross chats between them and those conversations are still haunting me. He started talking with a girl and they went to a hotel within 15 days of talking! And that is too when our daughter is just a month old, when I was going through a lot!

After being caught red handed, he apologized, begged for staying in this marriage. I somehow gathered myself and continued to stay.

Then on several occasions I found chats with girls, commenting randomly on social media, flirting with girls on Insta and FB.. every time I found these, my trust was shaken badly. And now, though he claims that he is not having any such contact with any girls, I just cannot trust him.

Besides, he is somewhat narcissist.. doesn't care about a lot of things, doesn't accept his fault ever, always tries to shift blames on me if he has done anything that has hurt me.

I am mentally so disturbed that all my personal life has become a trauma.. I lose temper even with my daughters. Can anyone suggest me how I can get back my mental peace? Right now I am trying to make myself distant from him.. less talking, sharing.