u/Less-Pangolin-374

I hate being alone but I hate being around people more hhhhhh

Hi everyone! I'm 22 years nd I don’t have a large social circle so I thought Reddit might be a good place to connect with kind nd interesting people.

I don’t know if anyone else feels this way but lately the loneliness has been overwhelming
Even when I’m surrounded by people but I still feel alone. Some days it’s hard to stay positive and I honestly miss having someone to talk to or just share life with.

In ur opinion what’s something that slowly destroys a relationship without people realizing it until it’s too late?

3ndi 22 ans walakin Ana makan3rfch bnadm f hyati mzn ga3 li kan3rf mafaytich 5 dnas o hta f social media 3ndi kolchi private.

Kifach kadiro liha haha

Recently, something happened that has made me question the trust in our relationship. Yesterday she went out with a male friend and did not tell me about it. I only found out later. When I asked her about it, she denied it at first. After I confronted her, she became defensive and started saying hurtful things to me, including calling me mentally ill.
What hurts me most is not that she has male friends. I understand that everyone can have friends of the opposite sex. The issue for me is that she chose to hide it, denied it when I asked, and then insulted me instead of having an honest conversation.
We are in a long-distance relationship, so trust and communication are very important to me. Lately, I have also felt that she is becoming more distant and less interested in talking than before.
How should I handle this situation? Is this something that can be worked through, or are these signs of a deeper problem in the relationship? What would you do in my position?
TL;DR: My long-distance girlfriend (22F) went out with a male friend and hid it from me. When I confronted her, she denied it at first and later called me mentally ill. I’m struggling with the loss of trust and want advice on how to handle the situation.

Recently, something happened that has made me question the trust in our relationship. Yesterday and today, she went out with a male friend and did not tell me about it. I only found out later. When I asked her about it, she denied it at first. After I confronted her, she became defensive and started saying hurtful things to me, including calling me mentally ill.
What hurts me most is not that she has male friends. I understand that everyone can have friends of the opposite sex. The issue for me is that she chose to hide it, denied it when I asked, and then insulted me instead of having an honest conversation.
We are in a long-distance relationship, so trust and communication are very important to me. Lately, I have also felt that she is becoming more distant and less interested in talking than before.
How should I handle this situation? Is this something that can be worked through, or are these signs of a deeper problem in the relationship? What would you do in my position?
TL;DR: My long-distance girlfriend (22F) went out with a male friend and hid it from me. When I confronted her, she denied it at first and later called me mentally ill. I’m struggling with the loss of trust and want advice on how to handle the situation.