u/LifePrune7610

Hi, I'm here to vent. I was dating Pablo for about two years, and we had a lot of plans for the future, one of which was getting married. He had a stable job and was also studying medicine. Because of the pressure his parents put on him, he started using cocaine and marijuana. I was also studying and had a part-time job. My parents helped us both a lot; in fact, they were very supportive of him. He always told me he felt rejected by his family because he had lost a year of university. He went back to school later, but that wasn't enough for his parents.

I was studying Tourism, and I had a three-month university trip to another country. It was our last trip. Since we had different majors, I traveled alone with my university group. During the trip, because I had a lot of work to do, I hardly used my cell phone. In fact, my family and he knew I would be super busy, and I often called them at night, but the calls lasted. Then one day, Pablo stopped answering my calls. I thought it was because of his university.

When I returned to my city, I was so excited to see him again. I got home exhausted, showered, and went straight to sleep. Two hours later, I woke up to go see him. When I looked out the window, I saw him crossing the street. I went downstairs to open the door, but he never arrived. I told my mother that I had seen him crossing the street, but he wasn't in front of the house. She and my father asked me to sit down and told me that a month earlier, he had had an argument with his father, who went out and was in an accident from which he didn't survive. I was devastated because that was why he wasn't answering my calls, and my parents hadn't told me anything since it was one of the most important trips of my career. This happened four months ago, and I'm still not doing well mentally. I'm seeing a psychologist.

I hope you can read this.