u/Limp-Ad5730

The subreddit mentioned in the title is full of reviews for a single seller Jim, and it just seems suspicious?

All the reviews are AI written, even the pictures seem weird. And the comments are also very strange.

Am I imagining things? Anyone with a genuine experience from this seller? What do you guys think?

Extremely curious about this, because I got asked this recently and couldn’t answer it! I switch bags so often that I don’t think there is any one that is my absolute go-to.

Am I the only one?

Please comment your use-case as well, whether you are a mum and carry essentials for your kids or prefer to carry just the basics for yourself.

Thank you

I (35F) have been with my husband (37M) for over a decade and we have been married for several years. We currently live abroad, while both of our families live in the UK. We have a 2-year-old daughter.

The issue I am struggling with is around expectations from my husband's family, particularly my mother-in-law (MIL).

When we visit home, we split our time between both families. There is no expectation that my husband should spend more time at my parents' house because he is their son-in-law. However, there is an expectation that I should spend more time at my in-laws' house because I am the daughter-in-law. If my husband stays at my parents' house, my MIL will often call asking when he is coming back. She doesn't directly say he cannot stay there, but it is clear she is unhappy about it.

My in-laws are also much more traditional than the family I grew up in. There are expectations around being a daughter-in-law that I did not grow up with, such as me taking on more household responsibilities when extended family is around and following certain customs that are not expected of my husband. These differences in values have always been difficult for me.

I could probably accept those differences if I otherwise felt loved and welcomed, but over the years I have increasingly felt criticised and judged.
My FIL was the person who made me feel most welcome in the family. Since his passing, my relationship with my MIL has become much harder. She frequently makes comments that make me feel disrespected as a wife and mother.

For example, when my daughter refused to eat (she is extremely fussy and this is something we struggle with), my MIL called me a “heartless mother” for eating my own meal instead of staying hungry while trying to get her to eat. On another occasion, in front of relatives, she said her son was “completely whipped” because of our relationship. She has also told me in front of my own family that I need to “learn how to balance both families.”

I have tried addressing these issues with her because I genuinely wanted a better relationship. However, she usually tells me I am overreacting, that I am too sensitive, or denies that things happened even when I know they did.

Now that we have a toddler, this has become harder. Travelling between houses is already exhausting, and I no longer feel comfortable staying at my in-laws' house. I also do not want my daughter staying there without me. My MIL has ignored parenting preferences I have clearly communicated before, and because my concerns are dismissed, I don't feel confident my boundaries would be respected when I am not there.

My husband is caught in the middle. I understand he wants his family to have a relationship with our daughter, and I don't want to prevent that. However, I also feel I shouldn't have to put myself or my child in a situation where I don't feel respected just to avoid family conflict.

Looking for rehomes!

Looking for a Birkin 25/30 in Togo (could consider Swift), preferably neutral colour. Medium to High Tier and UK only please!

Thanks!

Hi guys, just wanted to share a fake WeChat ID that surfaced and entrapped me! I have been so diligent yet this happened, goes to show you that these scammers work hard and it can be almost impossible to tell the difference between them and the real thing.

Wanted to share it so you don’t fall for it.

WeChat: misschen626bespoke

Can someone please share Angel’s WeChat? Please DM! I have been trying to find it for agesss

Thanks in advance

Or if someone is rehome an Angel Birkin in the UK, pls let me know

My roommate and I were moving out of our place. We had a cleaner booked to come at 10am, and our official checkout/handover with the landlord was scheduled for 4pm. There was plenty of buffer so the place would be spotless when we handed back the keys.

My roommate was in charge of confirming the checkout time, I booked the cleaner. Somehow she set the checkout for 10am!!! The exact same time as the cleaner. She didn’t realise until the agent showed up on our door, so no way we could rescheduled either. The cleaner showed up to do a final clean basically as we were being told to be out, the timing completely collided, and we ended up having to pay for cleaning twice plus a fine to sort the whole mess out.

I told her I wasn't splitting the extra costs because the mistake was entirely hers! I would've happily split it if it were a shared screwup, but I had nothing to do with the scheduling error. She went off on me, said we're not friends anymore, and is now threatening to take me to court over it.

Hi there, about to place my first order for the JUC, before I paid I wanted to check if I have the right Wenzhi ending in 7528?

Are they reliable?

Quoted me 1750 for small JUC with diamonds 18K