Image 1 — A rant about Fernhoof Grove because peer influence was right
Image 2 — A rant about Fernhoof Grove because peer influence was right
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A rant about Fernhoof Grove because peer influence was right

I've been curious about Fernhoof Grove for a while, it's one of those games that looked promising early on. When the playtest came out, I thought I would wait until early access to try it, but just one or two showcase videos convinced me to try it for myself. And the verdict is... yeah, I'm in love.

First off: it works! I have a 2013 office laptop, not made for gaming and struggles to run most games, yet this one runs smoothly without great effort. I did lower the quality to medium to fix slight lagging at first but it still looks as good and doesn't lag anymore.

I'm about 5 hours in and I may be obsessed already. This game feels like the perfect combinaison of Rein Ravine and Ranch of Rivershine, in its style, riding mechanics, atmosphere. It's very cozy and relaxing, while keeping the riding engaging and equestrian aspects realistic. Riding requires just enough practice without being too intricate to get the hang of. The concept of the game is very simple and concise, but works so well. It's the perfect game to unwind and clear your mind, no stakes whatsoever but objectives of your own to work towards.

I love being a boarder, and the limited amount of horses it implies. It's a fresh change. I find it accurate to real life boarding, and the barn is full enough with school horses to feel lively even with only one horse belonging to you. It doesn't give you this big empty stable waiting to be filled, just a corner of your own. The limited 4 stalls makes you think thoroughly about what horse you will bring home, and you grow attached to them quickly. Even now that I can buy and train more horses, I still love my starter horse and look forward to training him every day. He doesn't feel lesser than my new horses, more like my original trusty partner. I fully intend on keeping him for my entire playthrough.

The barn chores are repetitive, but not redundant, at least not yet. You're technically not obligated to do them, but they give you a good reason to do them. It has become a routine to turn in my horses, make their feed, do my chores, then get on with my day of grooming and training. Chores take all but 5 minutes to do and earn you 40 to 80 bucks each, so an easy bit of daily pocket money.

The market is a very fun experience. After the tutorial, you get a batch of 6 new horses per game day, which might sound small, but the Trial Ride feature changes everything. It makes the experience a lot more entertaining than clicking 'buy' on the picture of a horse. I took a solid 30 minutes choosing my starter horse, trialing and comparing everyone to find my best match. The process felt meaningful and I don't regret my choice. It actually feels like taking an existing horse home, not just adding an asset to your stable block. I have a plain boring bay and he's my most quirky ride and I love him very much.

Training is grindy enough without being too much. I'm no gamer, I rarely get far in a game and this one makes progress easy enough to offer challenge without being discouraging. The arena designer is great with a solid selection of exercises and premade courses. I can confidently say, this is the first game who makes training on the flat engaging. Competitions are not the most developed feature yet, with a small selection of courses who take a while to unlock, but the training is enough that I don't mind only competing once in a while. I usually train my horses over the game week then do one or two competition courses on the week-end as a challenge. Maybe not the most productive, but it makes for something to train towards.

Last thing about riding: the first person POV is awesome. I only ride in first-person, the feeling is great and if anything, I find it easier to ride like this than in third person. It's cool. Very cool.

I'm overall so happy with this game. It has been years since a game made me this excited, I just had to gush about it. For a game that's not even in early access yet, I find it amazing. The world still feels a little empty, maybe because of the lack of music or soundtrack in some places (the echo of wind in the stables can feel somewhat eerie at times) but the ambiant sound design in the market and showground is organic and immersive. And those bouts of emptiness are compensated by the game's charming design and personality. While stylized, it's deeply immersive while remaining game-ified enough to be engaging. Fernhoof Grove has an identity of its own and it shows in every crack and cranny. It doesn't need hyperrealistic graphics to be lifelike. The simulation is good, and the gameplay is good: it is a game and was designed like a game. Being currently out of horses, I found a lovely refuge in this game, a feeling not many horse games have been able to give me.

I deeply hope this game will receive the love and support it deserves. More than showing good potential, it is good. The passion put in this project is evident. I hope it will grow to completion, and keep its identity and focus on what it was meant to be. Simplicity can be thoughtful, and sometimes it's all that's needed.

Thank you Miaumi Games for this gem!

u/Little_Sisco — 14 hours ago

Is an older horse worth purchasing?

Continuing my horse shopping journey after the last colt I tried was an epic fail (if you saw the post, thank god I didn't put a deposit on that one-), I asked around on my local equestrian group and someone offered me their gelding. A grade quarter horse, who seemingly fits the bill. He's from a western lesson barn and was mostly used as a trail horse. Calm, been-there-done-that kind of personality, but still has some spring in him. Healthy from words of owner but we'll let the vet check decide on this one.

Now, the only criteria he doesn't fit is age. He is 15. Not 'old' in common terms, I know, but since my heart horse passed away at 17, my first mare at 21 and several horses I knew didn't make it past 20, I can't say I've seen the best track records of healthy longevity. My main fear is to invest myself in a horse just to lose them 5 years later.

I was set on buying a younger horse, maximum 12. That being said, I'm starting to see how my budget won't offer me many young horses unless they are hefty projects or youngsters, which I have to admit I'm not ready for. I have a lot of confidence and skill to regain and my main need is a safe horse to relearn how to enjoy horses and riding. I do have mid-long terms goals though and I would rather not have another retiree in 3 years time that'll leave me stunted again. I'm a little worried about buying a mid-late teen horse and their bodies slowing down or having issues 2 years in. Even though, I know a sound healthy 8 year old can absolutely tear a ligament after a week and become a pasture pet.

People who bought horses in their mid-teens, how is it going for you? Any extra maintenance to be aware of? How long did they stay active and healthy? I plan to do mainly amateur dressage, trail riding, a little bit of jumping for fun (with my grand max height of 2ft). Maybe the occasional small shows, again, for fun. Nothing that should be too intensive on a middle aged horse, maybe I'm just paranoid. I'm still gonna try him out to see if we click, but I know his age is gonna be on my debate list.

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u/Little_Sisco — 5 days ago

Have you ever bought a horse you never thought you would like?

Share your funny, wholesome, or unexpected stories: have you ever ended up choosing a horse that was the complete opposite of what you were originally looking for, a breed/coat/type you don't usually like, and swore you'd never pick?

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u/Little_Sisco — 6 days ago

Looking for RRP riding buddies

I started playing the game more since being out of horses for an undetermined amount of time, and I'm enjoying RRP-ing a lot. I was wondering if anyone is looking for riding buddies? For casual roleplaying, just trail riding, schooling and the like. No need for long chatting if that's not your thing, I'm a big introvert so just some quiet company is well enough. I'm not looking to join a club at the moment but a few riding buddies would be nice :)

Edit: I'm on Stormy Pear!

u/Little_Sisco — 9 days ago

What is an intermediate rider?

I was having a reflection earlier and realized, I'm not sure of my own answer. What do you consider an intermediate rider? Is it more about skill, experience or independency? What sets an intermediate apart from a beginner, and what do they lack to become advanced riders?

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u/Little_Sisco — 9 days ago

Horse Reality - Seeking therapy for chronically depressed pixel horses

Help. My horses are all depressed. Their affection bar keep plummeting below 20. I don't log in every day, that's on me, but their other needs don't drain that fast... I've had foals born at 0 affection. I have two horses who are randomly top happiness, healthy 90%, when I don't do anything more with them than with the others. Is there something I'm not understanding? Is something glitching?

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u/Little_Sisco — 21 days ago

Sims 3 RRP community?

I imagine the eq-sims community for Sims 3 is pretty much dead by now, but is there still some groups of roleplayers out there? I'm debating whether to try out the game and it looks great for equine roleplay (with proper CCs and bug-management mods), but I'd rather have other people to share my stories with. Is it still worth getting into in 2026?

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u/Little_Sisco — 22 days ago
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Horse market FOMO

While choosing a horse, how do you avoid FOMO? After coming across so many horses over my -admittedly ridiculously long- shopping journey, I'm overwhelmed. I have flashed on dozens by now, a few I made a move on but didn't work out for various reasons. Everyone says 'You'll just know when it's the one' but anytime I see a horse I like, the feeling doesn't differ from all the ones prior, and won't be different from those who will appear later. Just because I like their ad doesn't mean it'll get anywhere, or that I'll like them in real life. So what does it change? How am I supposed to know I'm making the right choice?

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u/Little_Sisco — 27 days ago

Buyer Anxiety Struggle: the Sequel

Yeah, it's that thing again. Sorry folks.

New spring means new attempt on the market. And good god, I still hate it. Why is horse shopping so damn stressful? Finally found a horse you like, gotta give out the money on the same day or they'll be sold by tomorrow. Got a visit planned? Too bad, someone else was quicker! Have too many questions? Shut up and take the horse or move on already! Oh, you got to actually see the horse and you're buying it? Well come get it the next day, ain't got time or money to waste on it anymore!

Yeah, it's been a very serene journey.

There's a horse I flashed on yesterday. Dropdead gorgeous, within budget, seemingly fitting my criteria list. A few minutes of desire than instant panic about it. As you can probably tell, I am not the kind of person to make big decisions on a whim, and this horse being so nice and such a good deal surely won't stay over a few weeks at best. FOMO kicking in the moment I laid eyes on her. Finally got the guts to ask a few questions to the seller, and from their very concise, not-even-a-full-sentence reply, I'm having doubts. She seems like a lot of horse, potentially more than I'm comfortable handling (sensitive and forward in a regular saddle horse is one thing, for a full draft like her is another). I'm not a beginner, I've been an owner before to a sometimes challenging horse, but I don't have the confidence I used to have and, well, I'm petit. I don't know if it's worth asking more questions, the sellers are so vague and short in their replies, it feels like pulling the worms out. Maybe the best way to make myself a real idea would be to set a visit, but something inside me is terrified to do so. Even though the other part of me is curious and again, is afraid of missing out. She's such a nice horse.

I feel dread in my stomach. Every time I see a horse I like, every time I debate reaching out to a seller, every message they send back. I may want the horse but the process anguishes me to no end every single time. So I either chicken out of it, or push through and end up disappointed. It's not for nothing I'm still in the market after 5 years of searching. I've only made a move on a few horses but the deals all died in the water, either selling the day before my visit or not being what I wanted in person. Once the horse is paid and home I could finally settle, but getting there is the trenches.

I don't know when to trust my gut feeling anymore. I've had the heartthrobs for many, many horses over the years, it never meant anything. All of them we're immensely stressful at the same time as well. On this peculiar horse today, my mind is screaming 'BACK OUT! ABORT MISSION!' but it screams nearly any time I try and commit, so how do I know if the bad feeling is valid? I don't have a coach anymore or equestrian friends, it's pretty much me myself and I. I'm coming to think maybe I should abandon the project and wait until I'm no longer so upset over the whole process, but then again, how can I know if 2, 3, 5 years from now will be any better? No matter how long a break I take, the progress I make in my everyday life, I start back at the same place when I try once again to find my horse. How will I even know it is the One?

Yeah, I did say I would ease up on the ranting posts. Oops. It's just... I'm pretty happy in my life. I have a good situation, I studied this project thoroughly, I know I'm not being reckless. I know I love being an owner and once the purchase part is done, I'd be excited and glad I did it. I've been wanting it for so long, and I feel in a good place overall. But that one blockage? It's daunting. Oh, what ponies put us through.

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u/Little_Sisco — 28 days ago

Horseless after 10 years of ownership, how to cope?

I was an owner for a decade before having to put my horse down in January. She was my first horse, had her since I was 11. A big privilege, I'm aware. Half my life and the great majority of my riding journey, I was an owner. I didn't really ride other horses beside mine. Now that she's not here anymore, horses have been feeling... bland. I don't find joy in lessons, part-boarding or leasing. I did try, but I have no fun constantly having someone over my shoulder and having little to no control over how, who and when I can ride. All it does is remind me of what I lost. I'm so used to doing my own thing unbothered, I feel like a fish out of water at every barn I go. It sometimes feels like my experience from all those years is now wasted and I'm back at square one. So I quit horses altogether, I miss it dearly everyday but I don't think I'll be able to return to it and find happiness until I get to have a horse of my own again, if I ever do.

Equestrians who lived similar situations, how do you cope? Did you manage to enjoy horses anyway? Did you step out of horses, and if you returned, what brought you back? Did you find another horse eventually or decided to continue riding in a different way?

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u/Little_Sisco — 2 months ago

Dysphoria keeping me from enjoying sexuality

[discussion of sexuality and dysphoria, as the tin says]

So I(22FTM) started being active with my partner (cis) about two months ago. He is my first. Things are going great, except for me. I can never be turned on or feel any pleasure, and a big part of it seems to stem from dysphoria. I've been on HRT for 5 years and pass no problem with clothes on, but I don't have top or bottom surgery. I don't plan on getting them but some days are more icky than others. My dysphoria had been improving a lot over the last few years but it's come back with a vengeance since my first time. I feel like a barbie, or a tiny twink, I'm self-conscious about my chest in some moments and I'm more and more uneasy about him going down on me. I hate how I sound. Sex makes me feel so womanly and it's increasingly uncomfortable to live with. I did try topping/giving a few times and I like the dynamic better, I feel a bit more at ease in my skin and better mentally (though I still compare myself and feel too small) but physically, I would be missing some of the feelings from receiving, so I don't want to give it up entirely. My partner is not to blame, he's textbook perfect and treats me like nothing less of a man, I don't know why I keep feeling like this anyway. The more we do it, the more I'm thinking 'well, he's since my body enough already, surely it won't satisfy him anymore sooner or later', despite constant reassurances and reminders that no, he ain't going anywhere. I still can't get that nasty voice in my head to shut up. It's becoming frustrating, and of course the more I think about it, the worse it gets. I'll be in the mood any time except when we're together, I completely switch off and get in my head.

I don't know how to deal with this, how to make the feelings stop so I can finally give in and let myself enjoy it.

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u/Little_Sisco — 2 months ago
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Dysphoria keeping me from getting turned on

[discussion of sexuality and dysphoria, as the tin says]

So I(22FTM) started being active with my partner (cis) about two months ago. He is my first. Things are going great, except for me. I can never be turned on or feel any pleasure, and a big part of it seems to stem from dysphoria. I've been on HRT for 5 years and pass no problem with clothes on, but I don't have top or bottom surgery. I don't plan on getting them but some days are more icky than others. My dysphoria had been improving a lot over the last few years but it's come back with a vengeance since my first time. I feel like a barbie, or a tiny twink, I'm self-conscious about my chest in some moments and I'm more and more uneasy about him going down on me. I hate how I sound. Sex makes me feel so womanly and it's increasingly uncomfortable to live with. I did try topping/giving a few times and I like the dynamic better, I feel a bit more at ease in my skin and better mentally (though I still compare myself and feel too small) but physically, I would be missing some of the feelings from receiving, so I don't want to give it up entirely. My partner is not to blame, he's textbook perfect and treats me like nothing less of a man, I don't know why I keep feeling like this anyway. The more we do it, the more I'm thinking 'well, he's since my body enough already, surely it won't satisfy him anymore sooner or later', despite constant reassurances and reminders that no, he ain't going anywhere. I still can't get that nasty voice in my head to shut up. It's becoming frustrating, and of course the more I think about it, the worse it gets. I'll be in the mood any time except when we're together, I completely switch off and get in my head.

I don't know how to deal with this, how to make the feelings stop so I can finally give in and let myself enjoy it.

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u/Little_Sisco — 2 months ago

B*tching about the horse market, because what on Earth it this

Not but like, literally. The Eastern Canadian market has been bad for the past 5 years I've been horse shopping, but this year is ridiculous. There are no horses. Not just good horses, horses at all. Of the thin selection out there, horses over 6k are just average. Anything under is crippled seniors or unbroke backyard puffs who 'could use a refresh' and most likely need daily previcox or prascent. Most horses are not trained, or barely. (ice cold to the legs and requiring steel biceps to halt or turn is not 'trained' in my opinion) If they are basic wtc, 10k. Not particularly nice looking models either. Just... wow. I understand inflation messed up the horse world, but this is getting concerning.

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u/Little_Sisco — 2 months ago