u/Littlekiller0320

So I've been dealing with a lot lately, and I realized, I was a lukewarm Christian and I've decided to work on that. I know %100 that I'm saved, but I'm worried about my boyfriend. My boyfriend would swear he's a Christian but does not act like it. We have had a few talks and the more we talk about it, the more I question his salvation because of the things he has gotten wrong about the Bible, but when I talked to him he still claims to be a Christian. We go to church but he doesn't read his Bible and still wants to have sex even though we aren't married (we have stopped mostly because of me), and cusses some.

I've been seeing a lot of content lately about how people think hell will be like, and I can't stop being scared. I don't want him to be in pain and agony forever. He doesnt deserve that. I don't know what else to do, but pray, but that's not easing my fear that I'm now almost constantly thinking about and crying cause I want to be with him forever

I'm worried because he thinks hes saved that he won't come to true salvation.

I don't know if you have advice or not, but can yall at least pray for him and I?

Other info, he was not baptized, he does pray some, we are 28F 36M and we have been together for a year and we go to church together. He says he doesn't like change and this is a change for us. I have asked him multiple times that I want him to want to do this and not just cause I want it. He says he does but has not started really changing that I can see. He's the perfect guy for me in all areas but this. Do I just give it time? Im riddled with anxiety over this.

I am trying to grow in my faith to be a good example for my boyfriend and also I was a lukewarm Christian. Now that im reading more I find this verse very concerning. From how it reads to me is help the needy and homeless. I live in a terrible crime filled town with lost of homeless people that are more often on drugs. I also dont cary cash on me, so when they come up to me for cash, i usually say I dont have any (which is true) or I dont want to because they will just buy drugs or alcohol. I also am not well versed enough on the Bible and have really bad social anxiety so i never preach to anyone. I have bible verses hanging in my office that patients usually read, is that enough? Since Ive started reading my bible more and reading different sermons or explanations of things online, I feel like im not good. I feel like I will go to hell, even though I am saved and want to do right by God because I love Him, I just feel like no matter what Im gonna fall short in some area and go to hell for it. I just dont know what to do anymore. Am I truly a Christian if i dont do these things?

So I've been dealing with a lot lately, and I realized, I was a lukewarm Christian and I've decided to work on that. I know %100 that I'm saved, but I'm worried about my boyfriend and brother. My boyfriend would swear he's a Christian but does not act like it. We have had a few talks and the more we talk about it, the more I question his salvation because of the things he has gotten wrong about the Bible, but when I talked to him he still claims to be a Christian. We go to church but he doesn't read his Bible and still wants to have sex even though we aren't married, and cusses some.

My brother on the other hand, has started cussing (I think that's my fault cause I used to cuss a lot) but when I have tried to talk to him recently, he said he doesn't want to go to church and said that if I push him (I asked him to go once) he won't go at all. He says he's saved also but I don't know for sure.

I've been seeing a lot of content lately about how people think hell will be like, and I can't stop being scared. I don't want either of them to be in pain and agony forever. They don't deserve that. I don't know what else to do, but pray, but that's not easing my fear that I'm now almost constantly thinking about.

I'm worried because they think they are saved that they won't come to true salvation.

I don't know if you have advice or not, but can yall at least pray for them?

My boyfriends s10+ is having issues. The top bar went away, the close app tab icon went away, and when he turned up the sound, the soundbar won't show. And he can't hard reset his phone or hit the power button on the top. Everything else works normal.

My highest weight was 193. I got down to 170ish and stayed like that for a while. I finally started to actually get smaller and healthier. We'll now when I look at myself in the mirror, I feel ashamed. I don't have much loose skin on my stomach, but I have them in my thighs. I can feel them giggle when I walk on the treadmill and feel terrible when naked. When I tell people that I've lost almost 40 lbs, I'm ashamed rather than excited or proud. I am fine standing up and seeing my flat stomach, but I sit down and see my still big thighs, and I just want to cry. Skin removal is out of the question cause I'm poor. I just thought I would feel happier.

So for a few months now, I realized that I'm a lukewarm Christian, and I don't want to be. I want people to look at me and see Jesus but I'm so ashamed of my past. When my ex broke up with me (7 year relationship and it was my first) I was so mad at God fir many different reasons and I didn't put my faith in Him that it would get better. I yelled at Hom, begged Him to help me, but I never felt like He did. I considered leaving, but I never did because I love God so much. Buy I told someone that me and God were not on good terms at that point. I'm so ashamed for saying that, for yelling at God, for blaming Him, for not trusting in Him. I've been trying to be a better Christian because I want to go to Heaven but I don't feel worthy to worship Him after everything I did and said. I don't know how to get over this shame that I feel whenever I try to read the Bible or just worship Him in general. I don't know how to get rid of the shame I'm feeling.

I've been doing omad Monday-Friday for 6 months now 30lbs down and happy! But it's been getting harder to not feel like sh*t during the day. I try to drink water like I did in the beginning but I'm still always hungry and hangry most days. I threw up water on the way home today after feeling terrible all day. I was already thinking about eating lunches again but I get really bad anxiety about it cause I'm only 15lbs away from my goal weight. But the throwing up and constantly in a bad mood is concerning to me. I just don't know what else to do to make omad easier.