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Some context, I’m 26, I’ve had 4 major relationships, a 5years one, the others close to 6/7 months. And I had quite a few shorter stories (30 something, while traveling, or just few dates, you get the idea)

They have all ended for different reasons, cheating, disconnection, loss of attraction, you name it.

Do you guys feel like it’s always worth a shot?

For the past 4 years I’ve been single, tried to avoid intimacy due to self protection.

A woman came in my life like a storm, pushed things forward, from strangers to flying to the Philippines together in 3 months.

A week after, she ghosted me and broke up.

I think she is an avoidant, but that’s beside the point… the point is that I was so convinced of not having anymore relationships, and she convinced me otherwise. Just to end in the same way, probably even worse than my previous experiences. I’m quite over it. No biggie.

What do you guys think? Are relationships worth the risk of break up?

Because I feel like the lows are not worth the highs.

Per alzare un pochino la leva, vorrei farmi un portafoglio 60/25/10/5 NTSG/DBMFE/GOLD/CARRY

ma sono un filo terrorizzato all’idea di una rapida salita dei tassi di interesse che potrebbe danneggiare parecchio la leva.

Che ne pensate? Altre criticità?

All’incirca credo arriverei ad una leva del 1,7/1,8

Some context, I’m 26, I’ve had 4 major relationships, a 5years one, the others close to 6/7 months. And I had quite a few shorter stories (30 something, while traveling, or just few dates, you get the idea)

They have all ended for different reasons, cheating, disconnection, loss of attraction, you name it.

Do you guys feel like it’s always worth a shot?

For the past 4 years I’ve been single, tried to avoid intimacy due to self protection.

A woman came in my life like a storm, pushed things forward, from strangers to flying to the Philippines together in 3 months.

A week after, she ghosted me and broke up.

I think she is an avoidant, but that’s beside the point… the point is that I was so convinced of not having anymore relationships, and she convinced me otherwise. Just to end in the same way, probably even worse than my previous experiences. I’m quite over it. No biggie.

What do you guys think? Are relationships worth the risk of break up?

Because I feel like the lows are not worth the highs.

Some context, I’m 26, I’ve had 4 major relationships, a 5years one, the others close to 6/7 months. And I had quite a few shorter stories (30 something, while traveling, or just few dates, you get the idea)

They have all ended for different reasons, cheating, disconnection, loss of attraction, you name it.

Do you guys feel like it’s always worth a shot?

For the past 4 years I’ve been single, tried to avoid intimacy due to self protection.

A woman came in my life like a storm, pushed things forward, from strangers to flying to the Philippines together in 3 months.

A week after, she ghosted me and broke up.

I think she is an avoidant, but that’s beside the point… the point is that I was so convinced of not having anymore relationships, and she convinced me otherwise. Just to end in the same way, probably even worse than my previous experiences. I’m quite over it. No biggie.

What do you guys think? Are relationships worth the risk of break up?

Because I feel like the lows are not worth the highs.

Io ho un portafoglio 60% NTSG 20% DBMFE 10% gold 5% cat bonds 5% carry. Mi chiedevo se per fare meno la punta al cazzo avesse senso semplificare mettendo uno sbarramento del 10% ovvero investire solo in asset class che abbiano almeno un peso del 10%. Se i nat cat facessero merda, o vincessero di brutto, questo avrebbe davvero pochissimo peso. Però avrebbero costi di ribilanciamento e rotture di palle. Sto pensando di passare ad un 60% NTSG 30% DBMFE 10% gold

Voi che pensare di una possibile eccessiva diversificazione dei diversifiers?

Rais, ho questa idea di voler fare “più spazio” ai miei diversificatori:

Sostituire il 10% in oro che ho nel mio portafoglio con un 5% di oro a leva 2x. (O 3% a leva 3x)

Di conseguenza sto cercando un etc con una leva dai costi economici (basata su futures maybe?) in terra ucits. Conoscete qualcosa?