I just don’t feel like me anymore
Honestly, since becoming a mum I feel like a shell of my former self. I’m a mum of 3 (a 2 year old and 4 month old twins)
I used to take such pride in my appearance, I would always do my hair and makeup and look nice but now I can’t even put mascara on and honestly there’s days where I don’t even think I’ve brushed my hair.
I just feel a bit lost. I have severe diastasis recti since giving birth to the twins and it’s led to an apron belly. I can’t bear to look at myself in the mirror and just feel absolutely disgusting which I think isn’t helping towards my lack of making any effort.
I love my children to bits, have a very supportive husband but I just hate to look at myself. Has anyone faced anything similar? What can I do? I hardly have any time for myself these days so it’s difficult for me to even try and do my hair and makeup.