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I met an Ukrainian lady in Italy, I was able to have a conversation with her. Her story was quite sad, and I wish to narrate it.

First of all, I'm from Asia. I had to communicate in English, almost everywhere. In the hotel I stayed at for a few days, they had one Ukrainian lady for room service. She didn't know English, so had to initially rely on hand gestures as most Italians commit to that. She told me that she's from Ukraine. At that point I had a little hope for smoother communication, since I learnt Russian in my schooldays.

I wasn't sure if she would appreciate it, but gathered courage and asked her, if she could speak Russian in Russian. She did take it in a good way, she was a fluent Russian speaker. She used to live near the Moldavian border of Ukraine, it has been two decades since she came here. She was quite surprised that I could speak Russian, I was able to hold a few small conversations, about where I live, why I am visiting here and all that.

I realized she has made peace with the fact that her brother died during the Siege of Mariupol. It was indeed a heavy conversation, when she said that her brother, mother, father all of them are dead. She is raising her son, with her husband in Italy, and basically has little interest in going back to Ukraine, partly due to the conditions nowadays. I've heard about the war a lot, but it was the first time I met sometime who was directly impacted by it.

Maybe I'll have to start learning Ukrainian shortly, but from one standalone experience I realized that you all can speak Russian quite well. Fun fact: Ukrainian is gonna be my Fifth Language if I learn that.

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u/Longjumping-Mix-9351 — 13 days ago

Whatsapp Taxi Services ended up in a mess for me 😞

As a new tourist here, I was using the WhatsApp taxi services quite comfortably for the past few days, until yesterday. I wasn't aware that you can't cancel a taxi in that same medium. So the taxi turned up while I was in a no-show state. I realized it after I started receiving calls, that's when I started panicking for any possible legal enforcement against me.

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I learnt quite a hard way that whatsapp is only useful for booking a taxi and nothing else. Anyhow, I sent an email to their office, and asked if I had to pay any fees since the driver had to cover a long distance. I didn't want to make some feel cheated as a tourist, so I completed the outstanding payment as soon as they informed me, and apologized for my mistake.

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To my fellow Italians, I want to know if this was a common mistake or if I was actually ignorant for the matter?

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u/Longjumping-Mix-9351 — 14 days ago

Need a little bit of help regarding cab/taxi services. Near Trasimeno.

I need to go back from Tuoro sul Trasimeno to Passignano Station. Since the train services are mostly from there, I need to get back to that location before heading elsewhere. Found out that Perugian Taxi services aren't really helpful, this far from the city.

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So, if possible can anyone suggest an alternative way of transport to Passignano?

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u/Longjumping-Mix-9351 — 15 days ago

El Salvador and Honduras had a short war in 1969, it's popularly known as the Football War.

Had one oversimplified reference here.

u/Longjumping-Mix-9351 — 25 days ago

Muslim Women in India, their lives against rising polarization and Hindu Nationalism in the state.

I made a post here yesterday, and of course the privileged people failed to understand the intersectional problems faced by other marginalized groups. I was called racist for pointing out a probable discriminatory mindset. But anyhow, I need to explain the marginalized Muslim community problem in India.

You see, I live in West Bengal or India. It saw one of the worst communal massacres in the British Raj, 1946-47. After the subsequent years of partition, with communists ruling the state (fun fact: Longest democratically elected Communist govt ever was in West Bengal). But anyhow I'll come back to the bigger picture of India.

Now in the 1990s, there was a significant Hindu Nationalist sentiment uprising. But it was not until 2014, that the Right Wing party BJP swept the general elections and is in power even since. I will appreciate it if you can find some news reports, there are plenty of them highlighting the specific socio-political oppression against Muslims. Muslim women find themselves in an intersection of this rising Islamophobia and Patriarchy.

There are societal stereotypes that Muslims are dirty, violent, intolerant, uneducated, inferior, hostile, criminals, illegal immigrants and many more. If you are Muslim, you can be questioned about your nationality. If you are a Muslim, people may accuse you of a crime you didn't even commit.

There was this incident: https://www.hindusforhumanrights.org/en/blog/why-it-is-time-to-show-support-with-our-muslim-sisters-in-india , where Muslim women were sold on fake auction sites.

And there's a literacy problem. Data clearly shows that Muslim women were not privileged enough in academic activities. And even after being aware that the institutions of Madrasas have been under attack. Even siting Ministers provoke hateful comments against Muslims. One of them said, to knowingly pay less to Muslim drivers in the state; why? Because they can be illegal immigrants.

And trust me when I say, there are people in India who will celebrate if an innocent Muslim is killed. If an innocent Muslim is raped. If an innocent Muslim is imprisoned without trial. Because they are so much hateful against Muslims, they fail to differentiate a person and their communal identity. During Gaza attacks, Hindu Nationalists weren't silent, they laughed at rubble that crushed Palestinian babies.

In 2002, there was a riot in the state of Gujarat (where our current Prime Minister Narendra Modi, used to be Chief Minister back then). There are alleged videos of the perpetrators who admitted that they were given some sort of free hand in the crimes. One incident they slit women a pregnant woman....(Won't say the rest). You can read about Bilkis Bano case too, when the rapists were allegedly set free even after being convicted, why? Coz they were pure Hindus, and rape against a Muslim weren't enough to impurify apparently. The ideology followed by Hindu Nationalists often come from the controversial personality called VD Savarkar. In his book he once justified revenge rape against Muslim women, even if they aren't the direct perpetrators. https://www.genocidewatch.com/single-post/persecution-of-muslim-women-in-modi-s-india-special-report

https://amp.scroll.in/article/808788/reading-savarkar-how-a-hindutva-icon-justified-the-idea-of-rape-as-a-political-tool

Now there's a problem of patriarchy too. It's quite undeniable that a lot of socio-religious norms do harm women disproportionately. But in a state where Muslim identity is the main target, how can we focus on upliftment of Muslim Women specifically.

u/Longjumping-Mix-9351 — 25 days ago

"I'll date only Hindus". From a Intersectional Queer and Liberal Woman perspective, it is merely a choice or Unwritten Discrimination?

I censored the sensitive information, to prevent any bad faith engagement. My core question is that if we're liberal enough to break free from Heterosexual norms, but stay consistent with other conservative norms of 'caste', 'ethnicity', 'religion', then is it really progressive?

For context, "only Hindus" means "No Muslims", because the mentioned location has either Muslim or Hindu population in general. For generations people hesitate committing in Inter-religious marriages, for obvious conservative norms you can guess.

Now imagine being a Lesbian, "I'll date only white women", "I'll date only rich women", "I'll date only Cis women", "I'll date only attractive women". "I'll date only physically abled women". I listed those as per the Crenshaw model. At what point, is it preference and when is it internalized discrimination?

u/Longjumping-Mix-9351 — 26 days ago

Death of Swedish Emperor Carolus Rex was largely a mystery for over 300 years. (Metaphor & Sabaton alert in the meme)

Although the mystery was largely considered solved in 2023, there are still some debates.

u/Longjumping-Mix-9351 — 27 days ago

In the Battle of Passchendaele: (Sabaton has a song about it)

soldiers drowned because the battlefield turned into a liquid mire, after drainage systems were destroyed.

u/Longjumping-Mix-9351 — 1 month ago