Image 1 — Iran Paradox: Homophobic but Trans friendly (only binary)[Not an attempt to whitewash the regime]
Image 2 — Iran Paradox: Homophobic but Trans friendly (only binary)[Not an attempt to whitewash the regime]
Image 3 — Iran Paradox: Homophobic but Trans friendly (only binary)[Not an attempt to whitewash the regime]
Image 4 — Iran Paradox: Homophobic but Trans friendly (only binary)[Not an attempt to whitewash the regime]
Image 5 — Iran Paradox: Homophobic but Trans friendly (only binary)[Not an attempt to whitewash the regime]
Image 6 — Iran Paradox: Homophobic but Trans friendly (only binary)[Not an attempt to whitewash the regime]

Iran Paradox: Homophobic but Trans friendly (only binary)[Not an attempt to whitewash the regime]

It makes me wonder why a theocratic nation would allow gender affirming trans care. The pattern of allowing transgender care but suppressing homosexuality, is not unique to Iran. In certain southern Asian countries, the culture of transgender existed for a long time, while the homosexuality was a total outcast. This is apparently, a reverse script compared to the western countries where queer liberation started with homosexual rights.

However I must add that the process for gender affirmation in Iran for transgender individuals is quite rigorous. There will be thorough counselling, followed by an approval by a family court, and then proceeding to HRT and surgery (surgery is mandatory, so it increases the volume too). Iran offers a huge volume of transgender surgery every year, about 4000 per each (compared to the US, they offer about 2500 per year). Gender affirming care is quite cheap but suffers from quality healthcare issues. Another reason for such a huge volume of surgery is the fact that Iran gets a substantial number of patients from other Middle East countries.

TL;DR: Quite progressive compared to other conservative states, that are totally queerphobic. However it is heavily regulated by the administration, and allows affirmation under strict and invasive guidelines.

u/Longjumping-Mix-9351 — 17 hours ago

Does being genderfluid affect your dating life?

I'm disillusioned at this point, and it feels near impossible to find someone cisgendered heterosexual or homosexual to understand me. Even the attitude by cisgendered bisexuals wasn't quite good. If someone who is cisgendered lesbian or gay, wants to abruptly know about your birth genitals, it's quite impossible to continue a conversation for me. If this dilemma is relatable for you, then I'll want to know if you succeeded in fetching a better solution.

Personally, I feel that finding someone trans (enby/genderfluid included) could be the only option, due to shared background who can understand that certain questions maybe inappropriate in the beginning. Again, where I live it's quite a conservative country, so dating pools for queer are quite limited, and even those who are queer may not understand genderfludity. However I fear there can be further distinction between trans binary and trans non binary individuals, and similar frictions as I mentioned before. Idk if that's a reasonable fear.

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Trans Non Binary, (including Genderfluid, Agender, etc) individuals face unique challenge in social transitioning and HRT

I have compiled some of the post from Instagram. I'm genderfluid myself within the enby umbrella, and I'll like to present some inputs in this regard.

  1. Non-binary people face unique challenges with HRT because standard medical protocols are designed for binary transitions. Key hurdles include predicting the exact speed and mix of permanent physical changes, finding experienced providers who understand non-binary goals, and managing unstandardized "microdosing". If the physical body doesn't align with the internal self, the dysphoria won't improve with HRT.

  2. There's an intuition to fit someone in a binary. I'm queer and different, but explaining that is a Sisyphean task. Try telling someone that you're Genderfluid online, and even if they don't want to ask it abruptly, they make try to guess it, and connect the dots. As if explaining your gender is not enough. If it's offline, it's more likely than not that you'll be served with the binary pronouns at your face.

The point of this post is not to belittle trans binary folks, I love you all and will continue to speak up for you all. It's important to understand that if my pronouns are neither he nor she, then please respect it, and do not try to guess my gender at birth. I've faced such blunt comments on dating sites that have directly asked about my genitals. Somewhere down the line, I realized that when people get to know that you're a man or a woman, they have a preconceived notion about your genitals (which can be incorrect). The point is that people expect certainty from your identity, and if you're different, it's a problem. From an intersectional perspective, being non binary or genderfluid brings more hardships along with erasure. If you're queer, please be united in these reforms.

u/Longjumping-Mix-9351 — 4 days ago

Intersex Individuals. Why Hormone Therapy is critical requiement for some people.

Someone assigned as female at birth can have XY chromosomes. There can be two conditions: Swyer Syndrome (Have Uterus and Vagina, but Gonads are not developed) and AIS ( No Uterus). Without hormone therapy they risk severe Osteoporosis, and Incomplete Puberty. Ban on hormones, can result in bone fractures, fatal heart conditions, and cancer risks. There are restrictions if anyone wants to transition to Trans Man; the AIS syndrome heavily restricts such medical transition. Infertility is an unavoidable reality for such individuals too. It's important to note that while I'm using an XY assigned female example, the issue isn't much different for someone born XX assigned male at birth (there's one difference, cancer risk for them is quite low)

Credits: brenisfine

u/Longjumping-Mix-9351 — 11 days ago

Trying to seek validation through assimilation, with the notion that it might invite less discrimination is unsustainable to your identity

Credits: @bottleneckloser (Sabre). Instagram

u/Longjumping-Mix-9351 — 13 days ago

Why heteronormative thought expects us Trans and Enbies to pass completely for validation? Why do I have to complete my HRT for gender validation?

I'm asking this as I'm a little disturbed by this prevalent thought. When we discuss the definition of women, we talk of self determination as a parameter, i.e. "A woman is anyone who deeply, internally identifies as a woman". Any definition that connects with anatomy, or how she's expressing herself, is not considered. That's exactly how I think we should proceed.

So if I'm a woman or a man or an Enby, it's because I internally identified it, and that's it. Whether I have completed my HRT or how I choose to express myself, it should be a cherry-on-top, rather than a deal breaker.

In that regard, even if I wear a skirt and keep long hairs, I do not become a woman as long as I don't think of myself as a woman. However, the society expects some heteronormative rituals, that we must follow. Maybe I'll have to explain a lot about my preferred pronouns and correct them repeatedly. How long we'll have to wait for our society to accept it, that Identity ≠ expression. Trans girls who present masc exist, Femme presenting Trans boys exist, Genderfluid & Non Binaries exist who may choose to express as they wish.

TL;DR: I'm opposed to using HRT, Clothing, and Surgery as a parameter for gender identity. Additionally, societal expectations force us to choose one or all of the above three, even when they are totally comfortable without that. We don't have to push a little more for passing in, or accepting validation.

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u/Longjumping-Mix-9351 — 20 days ago
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I'm okay with having both 🏳️‍⚧️. Support all my Trans Lesbian and Trans Gay friends 💜. I deal with similar dysphoria 😭.

u/Longjumping-Mix-9351 — 21 days ago