I feel like there should be bcz ppl are posting way too garbage there (now ik it's their account they pay for their internet and devices and they can post whatever the hell they want it shouldn't be my concern)
I don't like meat (it gives me sore gums and they hurt like hell, even breathing feels like war survival). I'm talking about, mutton, beef, chicken and whatever the birds y'all eat.
Now I don't understand every time I go to someone's place for a dawat or smth why they question it? Like bruh!! I'VE BEEN AT YOUR PLACE THOUSANDS TIME AND YOU HAVE YOU TO ASK ME THIS EVERY TIME!!!
NOW the even bigger problem. No one believes me (my parents obv does) they just think I'm being over sensitive and dramatic about it. Even when I hang out with my classmates and avoid gHoShT It somehow hurts their Punjabi-city. I don't understand how and why they get so offended like yes Ik you guys are right I should eat it right but I can't!! I don't want sore gums for a whole week where I can't eat a thing.
It's not a big issue as I'm probably making it but I feel so done why do I have to always explain it to everyone else even my own relatives they just see it as smth to mock and pull me down I don't understand this mentality.
I hate it when my parcels arrive via Postex it takes sooo long😭😭
Help...
So the question is what the title says.
Do you guys have a feeling that when you share your problems with your friends you're being too much? Even though yk and you're mature enough to understand who's your true friend. Y'all have been through thick and thin specifically and the bond is really strong. You don't see each other every day because of different schedules and institutes but you still are real friends.
But suddenly you start realizing you're bothering them (even tho they support you and care about you). They don't give any signs of annoyance or ignore your problems. You just feel that way.
Tbh these typa cases don't shock me anymore it's not like I lack basic humanity or empathy. The problem is it's so common these days... Idk what to say.
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I've seen a lot of guys making reels and memes on Instagram about how their "Qari Sahab" who was supposed to teach them the holy book used to beat the hell outta them.
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Here the problem ain't the religion it's people itself.
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And as a female I've studied the Quran from a female. She was a hafiza. The way she used to hit me with sticks I was like seven to eight I've studied there till fifth class and all I remember from that experience is how she used to hit me with that stick. It wasn't like a rod or smth it was just a broad stick she has specifically asked her husband to get so she could hit me.
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During my elementary school, i was participating in a recitation competition. There was this female teacher who used to help me prepare that. I was standing in front of the whole class practicing my surah. I still remember it was surah teen. And I couldn't pronounce some word so she slapped me right across the face in front of the whole class.
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I didn't cry that day. I was just numb.
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For me neither if I can give someone an advice it would go like
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If you see a girl and guy are close (platonically or romantically doesn't matter at all) just stay away from them. No matter how good they're. No matter if you're closer to both of them. Just stay away from them.
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I won't tell the whole situation but that guy has been sending all my texts to the girl who was my friend first and later his. Due to some situation (related to my character) when I called her out she told me that he was her "bestie" and kept defending him like her life's dependent on it and mind you sharing a private chat with another friend in a group is a big red flag.
Wth is wrong with these ppl?!
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Idk how they have the audacity to say this? I can't believe it. Even after all the recent incidents they're ppl who are victim blaming like hello?!
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Idk if I'm the only but why attention seekers and validation seekers are so annoying?!?! I mean I get it they're hurt or smth idk they seek approval and all but why is it so irritating sometimes?
The way they have to be the loudest in every room, how they want everyone's attention. You can't stand with them in a group and try to talk about anything they will try to make a whole Convo about themselves like it's some sorta race.
I've never studied computer major before in my country doctors are preferred but then I changed paths and choose to study cyber security major so I'mma complete beginner
The point is I get it programming is built on logistics but idk how to do it I can learn the concepts ik what's functions loops dict lists everything but when it comes to coding I suck I genuinely dk anything I really need help with ts😭 also I don't wanna just pass the exam to get a good cgpa
My prof thinks he's the best but he ain't even tho he's nice and a young dev he doesn't get it 🥲
So I'm in uni. For the past years I've had the same old friends. We are still friends but they're in the different uni.
The new bunch of ppl I hang out with ( I don't consider them friends yet I've trust issues), they gang roast me. Like it's always me. Yes I'm a bit different from them. I don't cuss at all. I do proper viel and I don't listen music at all.
If I even talk with a new person they start to act weird ( Idk anyone besides them yet ik it's not good but I'm an introvert and a loner)
They make it sound like my mindset is way too old and conservative even though I believe I'm pretty much open minded.
Even if I say smth that aligns with their perspective they refuse it like I'm being a nauseous. Sometimes it's so rude that I've to hold back tears.
They're all Punjabi I'm a pathan. When I joke about them being Punjabi they call it racism but when do it it's a joke even I apologized yet they told me I was a bad person for saying it like that like I've apologized multiple times even tho I didn't mean it that way.
They mock my Urdu accent. Idk Punjabi neither I understand it and they call me burger. I feel like crying sometimes but I can't.
I don't even have anyone else to be friends with idk what to do. I feel like a lost cause atp.