u/Lost-Equivalent2554

i (14 F) have been talking to this guy (14 M) for around a month. we both like each other. ive heard from one of his friends that he said hed date me if he got the opportunity.

im feeling really confident, and i do want to get in a relationship with him. i think i have to ask him though. i was thinking of doing it tomorrow

currently, its summer break. we havent hung out at all, we've just been texting daily for around a month. we usually text in the evening, until around 12.30-1 AM. i always get a goodnight text, without fail.

so if i ask him out, it is over text, unfortunately. i just dont know what to say. it feels weird saying "can i be your girlfriend" or "will you be my boyfriend". but, is that all i can say without it being even more corny?

okay so i was over my friends for a sleepover, and we brought hair dye, so i dyed her hair for her. it turned out really really well.

but, we did this all without her parents knowing. in the past, they said she can dye her hair, but it has to be washable. we used a dye that goes within 32 washes, so it is washable (more semi permanant)

my friend is scared her mum is going to ground ber (fair enough). what should we do so her parents dont get as annoyed?

there is this guy who i have been talking to for at least three weeks. and he's amazing. he's nice, considerate, funny, we have things in common, he's attractive, and he's my type. i thought, for a change, somebody was actually interested back. he would text me first, our conversations would last a long while, and i did feel some sort of connection. you see, i've never dated anyone. and i was keen for him to be my first boyfriend. it just seemed suitable, and it seemed as if we clicked really well. also for reference, it's currently summer break where i live, so all of this is over text baisically. i go back to school in the beginning of september. we started talking at the beginning of summer break.

so, quite obviously, we kept talking. and i thought to myself, i need to do something to get us closer. usually, if i have liked someone in the past (and i feel as if most people do this too) i ask if they want to play a game and call. therefore, i made the decsision to ask if he wanted to play this roblox game with me. he said yes. i suggested doing it the next day. he said he had plans with his family, which i understood. and despite these plans, we still texted the next day. a few more days pass and i said to him "you know, if you're free why don't we actually play demonology (the game) tomorrow?". and he agreed. the next day came, and we didn't. he apologised, and said something came up. we made arrangements to do it the day after. i texted him first that day, and he apologised again for not playing, but he fell asleep, and he said we could do it the next day. so, that day rolls around and i text first again because it's getting late. he apologises and said his mum took his xbox, due the fact they got in an argument. he said he was hoping to get his xbox back the following day and would play with me then.

that day rolls around, that day was yesterday. i felt pushy if i texted first three days in a row, so i didn't text him. he didn't text me at all yesterday, for a change, no apology (as he usually does) or anything. tonight, i'm debating messaging him. i want to, but i don't want to seem pushy.

it felt weird. out of nowhere, he stopped texting first daily, and it just felt as if he has changed? i don't know if im reading too much into any of this. i'm just anxious that any feelings he had have now been lost, because i really want this one to work.

so, to summarise, i was very close with this guy, and out of nowhere it starting feeling strained. all after i asked to play roblox, by the way, which feels weird. so, what should i do?

okay so i (15F) never dated anyone in my wholeee life. ive made it to talking stages before, but never past.

you see, im in a talking stage now and its been going extremely well. he (15M) showing genuine interests and keeps hinting at showing interest in me as a girlfriend too. i do really believe this one could work out.

i think he is the one (for my first relationship at least 😭), and i definitely can see him being my boyfriend. butt, i dont know how to get him to be my boyfriend. as a girl, ive asked guys out before (and one girl) and have always been rejected. there was another time too, but that was more complicated. so im js scared of being rejected again.

so, if i dont ask, do i just have to wait it out?? or do i risk it, or is there a better way??