u/LoudHoneydew427

Hi, I am 19 and two years ago I was diagnosed with PCOS. Out of all the other problems that this condition caused me, my mother was only concerned about one. Pregnancy. At that time I was like 17. How was it not awkward for her to be concerned about her teen getting pregnant in the future? ☠️

A few days ago we had a conversation and I told her that I don't want to have kids of my own. She asked me why and I just said "No reason". She then proceeded to say "what if your husband wants kids?"

Then what? Are you implying that he'd coerce me into motherhood? Isn't that rape, too? Plus who asks a teen about such a big decision.

Also I want to be a psychologist. I would have to study for the next 7 years but she's like "if you don't marry at the right time, you're not gonna get a "fresh" husband. Translation: you'd have to marry a man. (😭)

But don't worry she's like this to my brother as well. Says shit like she'll marry him by the time he's 21 (he's 15 currently 😭)

My sister is 25 and oh god the way she obsesses over her marriage is crazy. My sister is single and in Mumbai but my mom thinks she has a bf and is in a living relationship. Like why can't you just believe that she's single? She tells you about her relationship all the time. The reason she's so concerned about our marriage and my PCOS is just because of one single thing which is pregnancy. This makes me want to rip out my ovaries but I don't have enough money for it.

Also a few days ago a guy asked me about pcos. I told him that in a great detail. But the thing that he noticed? It was that women with pcod face difficultly conceiving. I told him I'm not concerned about that because I want to be childfree. The conversation should've stopped but he said "why"

What "why"? I can tolerate my mother's bullshit, not a random man. Im concerned that these people will later use coercion to force their wives into motherhood even if she doesn't want it.

This is also the reason why I want to earn. I am not gonna marry unless i find my type, but just in case I do end up with someone I'm gonna insert an IUD or some shit. Nothing ruins my life. Nothing will go against my will.

Ts was hard but I'm glad I got rid of it.

Ts was hard but I'm glad I got rid of it.

Ts was hard but I'm glad I got rid of it.

Ts was hard but I'm glad I got rid of it.

Ts was hard but I'm glad I got rid of it.

It's not a workplace. It's an ngo where I'm working. So yesterday a girl came to volunteer. She was in 11th I think she might be around 16-17 years of age. She was "dieting" or should I call it starvation because her aunt said that she's getting "healthy" and needs to lose weight.

Are we dead ass. When will we stop attacking people especially teens and children that they need to lose weight in order to be accepted by society. Young girls are starving themselves cause of their family's comment on her body.

Please. I think we need to monitor our children and friends and they aren't starving themselves. You never know what someone is going through.

My mother is always monitoring what she's eating but not in a healthy way. Like for breakfast she only drank sattu (a type of drink) while she cooked us sandwiches. Man, she feels guilty when she eats cake or anything sweet. She's always worried about her tummy rolls and I'm scared that she'll get an eating disorder. She already has clinical anxiety and now this. She hits the gym, yes. But to her dieting is nothing but starving oneself. She got breathing problems due to less motor activity so she needs to hit the gym no matter what. She enjoys the gym too because of change in environment and friends she made there!

She took a diet plan from many dieticians but still doesn't understand that she needs to eat "enough" and not less.

What can I do to help her? Have you faced a similar situation?

Either way. I'll only love harder.

I met this guy a week or two ago. We flirted a bit, shared a few things. It felt awesome. It felt right.

But of course how can life ever be kind to us?

He's struggling and there's nothing I can do for him. Because I'm not with him. Just the internet being our sole pathway of communication.

He almost died today. I want to protect him and shelter him but... He never talks about his emotions and feelings. I feel guilty when he's tired but still tries to match my energy.

I'm not kidding when I say I can do anything for him. I never connected to anyone like I've connected to him. I mean he's awesome, already knows my struggles and our history of parkinson's. Isn't that awesome? Isn't it the kind of love I should strive and fight for? I will.

But I don't want to be too pushy. I don't want him to think that I'm nosy when I ask him for the third time if he wants to talk about his feelings. He's tired, I know. But I want him to feel better. I want him to give part of my energy and I want to see his healed version. No matter how long it takes.

He motivated me to create. To liberate my spirit. He keeps me going. Don't get me wrong I love my parents. But Romantic love is different and closer to me. I think I can live a bit better if I have him in my heart while doing things he and I love. Man, i think I'll die. I'll ever be so in love with him.

I saw that we were at a house and it was breaking down. We all panicked and we were all rushing to leave the building. Downstairs a competitive exam was going on but the children were so focused that they didn't care that the building was falling apart.

Then I saw that we got Chocolates. Free chocolates. I also saw my cousin (3yrs old) in my arms. I don't know wtf tht means 😭

Hi, fellow ladies. I'm 19, and yesterday I felt like I'd hit rock bottom. So what happened was my parents left for a party, and they came back at 7 pm. My grandparents weren't at home, and my siblings are very private, so they don't really talk or do fun activities with me. So I was all alone in my house. I did nothing but scroll and kept reading old texts from people I have loved before. It hit me extra hard because the guy I'm talking with right now is busy and sad, and I'm super attached to him. (It's been like 2 weeks since we met.) I care for him, and I understand that his exams are going on and he's struggling, but for some reason, I am not able to detach myself from him. No, I won't suddenly un-love him or leave him, but.... he's been such a good listener to me, and I might've accidentally told him that I am tired of listening to people's vents (I was a people pleaser back then, staying up late at night), so now he doesn't talk about his feelings. He still tries to match my vibes, but I feel guilty that I am not able to do anything for him as a friend.

I don't have many people to talk to since it's exam season, but it gets lonely quite fast. I was sitting with my grandad and was talking to him. My grandad is my entire world and I love him but while I was listening to him, I still felt lonely. Like... I was superaware of the loneliness and ache in my heart. Then my parents came and we celebrated mother's day with them. Went through some photos with them. They were happy and travelling and I'm not jealous but I really want to go out too but I don't have friends here. I have come to my home for summer vacations so I can't really leave just anywhere. I mean I can but with who? I love going on dates with my mother but lately it's js really boring.

i told my mom that I am sick. so she let me sleep early but I slept at 2 am because my mind couldn't stop attacking me. it called me a scumbag and a sl/t and all sorts of dirty things. Fortunately I have amazing online friends and maybe the universe listened to me or some shit but most of them texted me and I felt like crying so bad. I have had also texted my ex cause I really thought I'd die from loneliness. I don't even know man I hated myself to the end of the world.

I haven't combed my hair in a week. haven't shampooed or anything. Brushing and bathing feels like a chore. it's not like I don't have work. I'm doing two internships but I no longer want to show up for them. Some of my friends are sick and sad and i pray that they recover. But I am literally nothing without them. I rely on them to feel good. Don't get me wrong, I love my family to death but there are just some things I cannot talk to them about.

Last night, my brain almost convinced me that I'm unlovable and dirty (infinite failed relationships (3) and talking stages).I woke up feeling feverish and a heart that is a bit calm but I hate mornings. Sometimes I think I have nothing better to do other than being a whiny bitch. do I really need to snap out of it? maybe im js being lazy. I dont know. is it normal to feel so?

{ half of my problems by self inflicted }

First, I don't have a clear goal in life. I don't know what I'll do in the future. Currently I'm doing psych and my mom is like "don't do msc/phd, you'll be late to marry/will feel jealous of other people that they'll married and "settled" " I hate that. I was on a path but then I got lost.

It was hard to even convince my parents that I want to do psych but thankfully I'm pursuing what I like.

But I can't study. It's not hard I'm just not taking things seriously. In my first semester I got like 66% and a failed subject.

Currently doing an online internship and oh god I'm not even doing that part good. I thought I would be good at content writing but I write terribly. I don't have any knowledge of basic grammar and that's embarrassing.

Im tired of the physical act of swallowing medicines for the past three years. It's draining and I try to take all necessary precautions but my parents say that I'm doing no shit. Doc said no to rice. I didn't touch it even though they're the easiest to make (I stay in pg and cook my own food) man, sometimes I was pissed at myself I ate a raw fucking onion out of anger. But i felt even more terrible and worthless.

It's like whatever I'm doing will not lead me to anything that I know that I want, i.e, love, stability, health and wealth. Im just so confused.

Im tired all the time. I tried waking up at 6 am and do all the shit but how is that suppose to make things better? I don't know.

I fall in love every business day and I just want to stop being here. I just want to be worth something and I want to stop my medicines. I don't even know what to do anymore. Im lazy but my mom don't give me any privacy. I've been manifesting so many things that they did come true expect this one. I know whatever I'm doing is wrong and i won't be able to justify in front of my parents but there's only so much I can do. I can't go out either :( should I fight or climb a mountain or do what for a bit of clarity????????

One of my friends for their images leaked and morphed. We don't know who did it but I really want to help. I don't know the account which is doing shit like that but if there's any way to help her please let me know.

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I saw that I have married my cousin at a young age.

We’re at a house. It’s not mine, it’s not theirs. It’s unfamiliar and a place I definitely don’t like staying.

I felt like I am disappointing my cousin. I felt worthless

Then I saw snakes. Not one or two but five of different sizes.

One was really big and visible but I wasn’t afraid of it because I could see it.

I was dreading the small ones because I couldn’t see where they were.

One climbed my foot and I was trying to get rid of it. Ironically I felt adrenaline rush and felt so alive and in the moment.

I got rid of it. I felt content.

I have seen my "friends" spewing absolutely bullshit about my friends who are overweight even though they have made it clear that they have issues such as Pcos and thyroid disorders.

They send reels of women feeling their absolute gorgeous but just cause they're overweight my friends look at them like "damaged goods". Even if the girl is as young as 12.

I hate that and I've tried to talk about it with my friends that told them how it's incredibly rude to make fun of plus sized women but their reply is always " life is chill " or " it doesn't matter ". I have stopped talking to those friends because they also commented on my pic that I "swelled"

Can we not be viewed as human w hormones and organs and body fat for once? Are we really damaged goods if we're chubby? I don't care about whatever the hell my friend think of them but I feel sad that he thinks a woman is posting reel/feeling beautiful for the world and not herself.