Unfortunately, not any luck changing career. Getting rejection from other sectors. Maybe its my cv or just need advice what i can do that can give me more luck in getting through the first door.
assalamualaikum, need advice on the searching process. I’ve fully trusted my parents in the finding a spouse for myself (arrange marriage).
I’ve met the parents and siblings of a potential and very proud on the value they have. I’ve heard great things from my parents about the female values and manners. The family has showed pictures of me to the female and happy on what she sees. However I’ve seen a picture of her and not attracted at all, but my parents say the picture doesn’t justify what she looks like in real life.
Im someone who’s doesn’t want to string along the idea of there is something when I don’t find attractiveness in someone and force something that can potentially cause an issue further down the line.
My parents say still meet and see if there is a potential change of opinion as there is no harm. I can tell when I said to my mum, I don’t want to carry on the process with this potential as I don’t want to waste anyone’s time, it hurt her as she thought she seen a very good match for myself.( I feel guilty as I don’t want to upset my parents)
My question really is, should I just completely end the process with this girl/her family or take the chance and trust in what my parents have said and just do a family meet where I can have a 1-1 with the girl and see if my opinion changes? Jazakallah
(This is the start of the search for a spouse)
assalamualaikum, need advice on the searching process. I’ve fully trusted my parents in the finding a spouse for myself (arrange marriage).
I’ve met the parents and siblings of a potential and very proud on the value they have. I’ve heard great things from my parents about the female values and manners. The family has showed pictures of me to the female and happy on what she sees. However I’ve seen a picture of her and not attracted at all, but my parents say the picture doesn’t justify what she looks like in real life.
Im someone who’s doesn’t want to string along the idea of there is something when I don’t find attractiveness in someone and force something that can potentially cause an issue further down the line.
My parents say still meet and see if there is a potential change of opinion as there is no harm. I can tell when I said to my mum, I don’t want to carry on the process with this potential as I don’t want to waste anyone’s time, it hurt her as she thought she seen a very good match for myself.( I feel guilty as I don’t want to upset my parents)
My question really is, should I just completely end the process with this girl/her family or take the chance and trust in what my parents have said and just do a family meet where I can have a 1-1 with the girl and see if my opinion changes? Jazakallah
(This is the start of the search for a spouse)
