u/LowAwareness5486

How to win avoidant ex back as a woman

Hey he broke up with me because he needed to find happiness and we agreed to go on a break how to get him back. And I won’t break no contact. Unless someone says too please I love him

Hey everyone,
Last night my boyfriend broke up with me because he said he said he was happier with his friends. He rarely hangs out with his friends not due to me but due to his busy work schedule.Let me give you the story. We have been together for three years in five days and he has been working upwards of 60 hours a week and doesnt do much for himself when he’s not working Hes gaming or watching tv with me and slowly he stopped making efforts for dates. We were so busy. We are now on a month break and he said he will probably be ready to get back together then but he doesn’t know and wants to find happiness as he doesn’t have much hobbies. I think he is depressed and he also told me I did nothing wrong is it possible that we get back together and how can I make he feel safe to come back. I love him so much and I would do anything for him. He said he also loves me and that I deserve someone Whos 100% happy and ready to be committed. I know im kinda put words in his mouth but he’s done this before and we got back together he is avoidant and when he gives me space he misses me so I hope he does come back. Any advice is welcome. We had what I thought was a good relationship but I guess he needs to figure out his mental. Thank you everyone

Hey everyone,
Last night my boyfriend broke up with me because he said he said he was happier with his friends. He rarely hangs out with his friends not due to me but due to his busy work schedule.Let me give you the story. We have been together for three years in five days and he has been working upwards of 60 hours a week and doesnt do much for himself when he’s not working Hes gaming or watching tv with me and slowly he stopped making efforts for dates. We were so busy. We are now on a month break and he said he will probably be ready to get back together then but he doesn’t know and wants to find happiness as he doesn’t have much hobbies. I think he is depressed and he also told me I did nothing wrong is it possible that we get back together and how can I make he feel safe to come back. I love him so much and I would do anything for him. He said he also loves me and that I deserve someone Whos 100% happy and ready to be committed. I know im kinda put words in his mouth but he’s done this before and we got back together he is avoidant and when he gives me space he misses me so I hope he does come back. Any advice is welcome. We had what I thought was a good relationship but I guess he needs to figure out his mental. Thank you everyone