I am about to relocate to biskra in 2027 or 2028 and I want to ask few questions about biskra, here they are:

• What are the available jobs in biskra related to technology
  • Knowing I am a coder and a website and logo designer and I also can teach languages like french, english and spanish
• What are the usual side hustles in biskra also related to technology, are laptop repair and printer repair lucrative as a side hustle there?
• What is the range of monthly rent cost of a modest appartement in a safe street?
• I want someone who knows the administrative paper work tell me if I can pay with chifa card in biskra with bejaia cnas?
• Given the desertic climate, Is water consumption expensive in biskra compared to other wilayas like bejaia?
• Is it true that biskra has Solar photovoltaic solutions and if so, is electricity consumption there cheaper compared to other wilayas like bejaia?
• Is habat biskra (the mosquito thing), frequent or rare?
• How do biskris handle heat strokes?

Here is what happened back then in 2016 or 2017 maybe. I was chatting with an older and wiser and a cool guy from khenshla and we used to chat about tech and coding. He used to use the kifout.m username.

Once I slighty brought the subject about religion with him and I told him I find the prophet peace upon him very wise but at the same time he seems a manipulator to atheists and even agnostic people. And since then with the influence of the posts I started hating the prophet for some reason.

So does the social media start fresh once in a while or is it the influence of the posts from this chat that sticked with me all this time?

is love some kind of emotional pain?

A useful way to think about it is:

• Love = connection, care, attachment.
• Pain = one possible consequence when that connection is threatened, broken, or unfulfilled.

If love were only pain, people would avoid it. Yet people repeatedly seek it because it can also bring meaning, comfort, excitement, companionship, and a sense of belonging.

What I Noticed About Attraction and “Soft Spots”

One thing I’ve noticed is that when a woman is attracted to a man, she often becomes interested in how he reacts emotionally in specific situations. It’s less about finding “weaknesses” and more about identifying his emotional pressure points—areas where his real personality shows through.

By “soft spots,” I don’t mean flaws in character. I mean sensitive zones that reveal how someone is internally structured. These are usually not obvious at first, but they become visible through interaction.

Common soft spots that tend to get tested indirectly include:

• Reactions to criticism or disagreement (does he become defensive, calm, dismissive, or reflective?)
• Handling of rejection or lack of attention (does he withdraw, overreact, or stay balanced?)
• Ego sensitivity (what situations make him feel challenged or respected?)
• Emotional boundaries (how he responds when someone gets too close or too distant emotionally)
• Consistency under pressure (does his behavior change when things don’t go his way?)
• Attachment triggers (what situations make him seek reassurance or distance?)
• Authenticity under observation (does he change behavior when he feels evaluated?)

In many cases, this doesn’t happen as a deliberate “test.” It can emerge naturally through conversation, disagreement, humor, or emotional moments. The woman is often trying to understand compatibility rather than consciously probing for flaws.

From the outside, it can look like “poking,” but in reality it is often just interaction patterns that reveal how a person behaves when something matters emotionally.

Over time, these reactions help form a clearer picture of the man’s emotional stability, self-awareness, and relational compatibility—far more than his self-description or first impression.

question:

give me the lines of the scene where daisy says "what does a girl know about love" in the movie the curious case of benjamin button

answer

I can’t provide the exact lines from that scene, but I can tell you what happens and what she means in context.

In The Curious Case of Benjamin Button, the moment you’re referring to comes during a reflective conversation between Daisy and Benjamin about love, experience, and emotional maturity. Daisy is essentially expressing doubt about her own understanding of love at that stage in her life. She’s aware that she’s young and still forming her identity, and she contrasts that with Benjamin’s unusual life experience and emotional depth.

When she says something like “what does a girl know about love,” the meaning is not literal ignorance—it’s more about insecurity and humility. She’s questioning whether her feelings are fully formed or reliable compared to Benjamin’s more complex emotional journey.

The scene overall highlights one of the movie’s core themes: love isn’t just about age or experience—it’s about timing, growth, and whether two people meet at the right emotional point in their lives.

my grand mother passed not long ago, this year actually, and before she passes away, my family brought up this story of her mother. her father wanted to marry her mother but her family didn't accept so her her grabbed his employees and kidnapped her and he married her and I swear it's the truth because I asked family about it and they told me it's true and when I asked my grand mother about it, she hesitated to say it outloud because she found it unethical.

but, before you think it's 100% romantic story, let me tell you that her father already had two other wives lol.

when I was 14 a classmate had sex with my crush and it hurt me deeply, it hurt me so deeply that I didn't know what to think about relationship back then and I think what saved me from thinking badly about women, was my childhood crush who deeply influenced how I see women today, and weirdly enough, I got reported that both my mid school crush and childhood crush, both of them had a crush on me too. one of them was lustful and the other became a really resilient and strong woman.

so yeah, this is my story/vent post.

I am usually labeled as a confident guy, even with women, I can talk to a beautiful woman smoothly and without any friction, but when I talk to a beautiful woman I have a crush on, I get really nervous and I feel high energy in my chest.

is this normal? I mean does this happen to confident people or is it just me?

yeah! here is the pattern I noticed in my social media contacts.

I am good at pattern recognition, its one of my potent gifts and I know this because recognizing patterns is a second thought to me.

so recently I asked myself, why all the women in my social media accounts are all boring and why the interesting ones leave immediately. then I have figured out from the day my future wife met me her brother hacked my phone and she watches everything I do and as soon as there is an interesting woman who looks interested in me, my lovely future wife uses witchcraft so I will snap and talk like a schizo-paranoid and freak the woman out and they always leave and never come back.

so that's my shout out today and its to my lovely future wife lol.

and yes she uses reddit and she will probably read this too. haha.

• don't make it obvious (you will be a joke when she is with her friends)
• don't make it fake (you will be a joke when she is with her friends)
• don't use her personal information (this will upset her even a lot)
• don't try hard (the more you try hard, the more you sound silly)
• make it funny if you have sense of humor (to avoid being a joke in her friends circle, make it obvious it's a joke lol)
• don't get inspired from real poetry (because algerian girls and women don't understand real poetry neither you do and let's be honest, real poetry is hard to write)
• don't make it a rap battle and rhymes (you are not eminem neither she wants to hear a hip-hop hit)
• after you give her the poem, if you see some of her friends get silent in front of you, change school dude, you are cooked.
• don't use your heart while writing nor your brain, actually don't use a pen at all, because you are not good at writing poems
• get ready to be rejected by her forever

the article mainly says, when someone who struggles with mental issues, he has two traits to develop to have a social life and they are:

- don't be creepy in conversations

- be independent

Usually men ask questions if yes or no this is attractive or not while women usually feel it rather than being sure about a single trait.

• Sappho (7th–6th century BCE) — Most of her surviving poems are directed toward women, but some fragments appear to address men or discuss marriage and relationships.
• Wallada bint al-Mustakfi (11th century) — An Arabic poet from Al-Andalus who wrote openly about love, including poems connected to her relationship with Ibn Zaydun.
• Elizabeth Barrett Browning — Wrote passionate love sonnets inspired by her husband, Robert Browning.
• Anna Akhmatova — Wrote many poems about love, longing, and relationships with men.

I learned in an arabic class back then in my high school time, that writing some types of poetry to a girl or a woman can put a lot of obstacles to marry her even in algeria.

based on this text: A famous example is Qays ibn al-Mulawwah, who became known as "Majnun Layla" because of his passionate poetry about Layla al-Amiriyya. According to the traditional story, Layla's family refused to marry her to him, partly because his public obsession and poetry made the situation socially difficult.

I almost wrote a poem to my future wife and then in that second I recalled this dude Qays ibn al-Mulawwah. and thank god I wrote her a shitty poem even though I wasn't inspired to write a passionate poem and I still love her.

and it's true guys, trust me it's true, because I wrote passionate poems to my earlier relationships and the situation went completely and suddenly out of control.

here is the question: "is it cross culture women like to be with a confident man"

Yes, across many cultures, confidence is generally considered an attractive trait in men. However, what people mean by "confidence" matters a lot.

Research across different countries has found that many women tend to prefer men who display:

• Self-confidence
• Emotional stability
• Competence
• Social confidence
• The ability to make decisions