

Me in a traditional fit
Recently attended a marriage in Tamil nadu
So I went in with the traditional fit
The kurta and mund is from Kalyan silks, kochi


Recently attended a marriage in Tamil nadu
So I went in with the traditional fit
The kurta and mund is from Kalyan silks, kochi
So yesterday after our football game in ground,we were having our regular fun talks and we saw a reel about vattavada and here we are...
Drove the whole night and after 280 km from our place , Finally Vattavada ❤️
Today my friend told me something that genuinely surprised me.
His roommate apparently reads books (or follows content) that teach things like:
- How to behave with your boss.
- How to behave with your girlfriend.
- Push-pull techniques.
- Creating emotional dependency.
- Making people chase you instead of being available.
It honestly sounded like a manual for manipulating people.
Maybe I'm naive, but I always thought the foundation of a relationship was honesty, compatibility, communication, and mutual respect.
I understand learning psychology or becoming a better communicator.
But intentionally making someone anxious, addicted, or emotionally dependent just to keep them interested feels wrong to me.
Do people actually do this?
Is this just internet dating culture, or have these kinds of "relationship strategies" become normal?
I'm genuinely curious what everyone thinks because I can't imagine wanting someone to love me because I successfully played a psychological game.
Today I attended a wedding outside my district
A random uncle came up to me, looked at me for a few seconds and asked:
"Are you an actor or some kind of celebrity?"
(I always wear sunglasses everywhere 😬)
I laughed and told him I had done a couple of short films that didn't really go anywhere. Then I mentioned that one of my Instagram reels had recently done well (became viral 2 weeks back)
The uncle got genuinely excited and started encouraging me. We ended up talking for a while.
I don't know if he recognized me from somewhere, mistook me for someone else, or was just being kind.
But honestly, as someone who's spent years chasing acting, making content, failing, trying again, and wondering whether any of it matters...
That small conversation made my day.
The next 10 minutes inside my brain was in papapaa bgm mood 😭
Sometimes a stranger's encouragement hits differently.
That's it. Just wanted to share a positive moment 🤗
Thanks for reading
I never thought Reddit would give me a little sister.
A few weeks ago, I posted a picture of myself drinking from the driver's seat (don't worry, the car wasn't moving 😭). A random girl from 10th standard replied to roast me and started calling me "the drunken uncle."
That was our introduction.
I expected the conversation to die in a few messages. Instead, she somehow adopted me as her annoying older brother.
She sends me random updates from school, complains about homework, argues with me over the dumbest things, and never misses a chance to remind me that I'm "old." Meanwhile, I pretend to be wise and give life advice that she ignores 90% of the time.
The funny thing is, she told me she gets a lot of creepy DMs from strangers online. But with me, she said she felt safe enough to be herself because I never treated her like anything other than a younger sister.
As someone who grew up without having a little sister, I never realized how healing something so simple could be.
Life has been hard lately. I've lost people, questioned myself, and felt lonely more times than I can count. But somehow, in the middle of all the chaos, Reddit gave me a kid who annoys me daily, calls me "drunken uncle," and still checks in to ask if I've eaten.
The internet can be a terrible place sometimes.
But once in a while, it gives you something unexpectedly wholesome.
So here's to my self-appointed little sister.
Thanks for reminding this drunken uncle that not every stranger stays a stranger ❣️
(It's an image of me and the little kiddo ,we haven't met yet )
This is a post for the people who are trying to heal or trying to find the answers for why their partner did that to her
If a snake bite you, would you try to find the snake ,to ask why did it bite you because you did nothing wrong or will you try to heal
And also there's another eg
People create values based on their perspective
A diamond can be highly valuable to us but for a monkey it's just a stone to throw to get the fruits
After my breakup ,the first three months I tried to analyse why she left me,what did I do wrong ,what mistakes I did
Then I realised it wasn't about me,it was my ex who couldn't handle the kind of love i offered
We were chasing different things , different mindset as well
So the people here, find yourself first
Find your prime and bring it on
So today afternoon I went to a restaurant in thiruvala for having a mandhi , after some waiting i got a seat
I ordered mandhi and after some time a family came
A guy with his wife and his kid and his mother,The mother and the guy sit together and the young boy and his wife were sitting together
He was talking to his mom ,ordered some food
After some time that young kid started creating ruckus, crying , making noise
That husband and his mother didn't move a finger
He was scrolling his phone and his mother was just looking around
His wife was alone taking care of that child ,she was looking helpless,she looked at me,I can see that helplessness in her eyes
The food came , the guy and his mother ate the food,while the woman was holding her son
I was just shocked by the behaviour of the guy, what kind of husband or father is he ?
Take care of ur wife and kids bro
Just wanna vent it here
So today afternoon I went to a restaurant in thiruvala for having a mandhi , after some waiting i got a seat
I ordered mandhi and after some time a family came
A guy with his wife and his kid and his mother,The mother and the guy sit together and the young boy and his wife were sitting together
He was talking to his mom ,ordered some food
After some time that young kid started creating ruckus, crying , making noise
That husband and his mother didn't move a finger
He was scrolling his phone and his mother was just looking around
His wife was alone taking care of that child ,she was looking helpless,she looked at me,I can see that helplessness in her eyes
The food came , the guy and his mother ate the food,while the woman was holding her son
I was just shocked by the behaviour of the guy, what kind of husband or father is he ?
Take care of ur wife and kids bro
Just wanna vent it here
So few days back,I went to Chennai for a week for a wedding,while coming back ,I have seen a beautiful Tamil girl , we both were looking at each other, small looks ,small smiles as well
Then we both looked at each other and smiled, she looked at me as well Then me and her locked at each other,then I used my eyes and told her to come to doorway
She eventually followed me ,we talked for a bit , exchanged names ,share some funny things,talked for a while , it was good
It's the first time I got approached by a girl in train ,it was a great experience as well
We eventually shared our personal details as well
Let's see 🙈
For me ,it was a fucking disappointment The boys was too good and the finale season didn't justify the legacy for me personally