Where does your “The Sims Resource” folder go?

Hi! So obviously I’d think it goes into the mods folder. But I have premium and use the basket install and the folder is in the same folder as my EA > The Sims 4 folder. Not mods. Should I move it? Some things don’t always show up.

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u/LxveyLadyM00N — 2 days ago

Week 4 stall

Hi all! I guess I got the dreaded Week 4 stall. I didn’t lose anything. My weight stayed exactly the same. I am on puree and it makes me want to go back to liquids.

I know it’s normal but I can’t help feeling discouraged. I’m not sure how it’s possible to maintain when you aren’t eating at maintenance.

I’m starting to regret the surgery and I definitely don’t want to regret it. It’s just really hard to see. Everyone says put the scale away and don’t check, but I can’t do that. I check once a week.

I have only lost 15 pounds since surgery. 10 on the liquid diet and 5 on the puree phase.

People also say “Go by how your clothes is fitting!” But my clothes fit exactly the same. I notice zero difference. I’ve lost 43 pounds since starting my journey in January but my clothes all feel the same. So there’s literally nothing keeping me motivated at the moment.

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u/LxveyLadyM00N — 13 days ago

Adeepindigo Family and Friends Connections Mod

Does anyone know what happened to this mod or where I can download it? When I google it, it only says family and friends activities. But this mod was big and I still have it in my mods folder.

I’m returning after not playing for like a year. Did they delete it?

Edit: I’m only seeing the translated versions of the mod

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u/LxveyLadyM00N — 17 days ago

Fridge freezing everything

Hi! My fridge keeps freezing everything. Even if it’s in a container like leftovers. I’m sick of pulling out leftovers and seeing ice chips. It freezes drinks too. Everything.

I live in an apartment so I haven’t reached out for repair yet because I wanted to see if I could troubleshoot here.

The fridge temperature is set BELOW the recommended because it was even freezing on recommended and it’s still freezing. I don’t think the vents are blocked. Every shelf freezes. Not just one.

There’s no separate temperature settings for the fridge and the freezer. Just a button with 4 options. We have it on the second lowest.

Any help?

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u/LxveyLadyM00N — 18 days ago

Post Op Day 1 - Some notes

Hi everyone! I had psyched myself up before surgery because I read all these horror stories of people having bad gas pain or waking up terribly from anesthesia. I did not have that experience.

Upon waking, I had Zero gas pains. No chest or back pain either. It was all in my stomach. But it wasn’t unbearable. The only unbearable thing was the hiccups and nausea. My recovery has been smooth. I’ve only needed some pain meds for my stomach but nothing for gas. Walking doesn’t help me because I don’t have gas pains.

This is all to say, if you haven’t had surgery yet, please avoid the horror stories and take it one step at a time. You could have an easy recovery like I am now.

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u/LxveyLadyM00N — 1 month ago

Husband is not being supportive.

My gastric sleeve surgery is Tuesday and I’m honestly terrified, not just about the surgery itself but about my marriage.

My husband has never really been supportive of this decision. He constantly complains about the inconvenience of my diet and recovery, and now that I’m going into the soft food stage afterward, he refuses to eat anything similar even though we genuinely cannot afford separate groceries right now. My surgeon’s plan has me on soft foods for 6 months, and instead of trying to work with me, he acts annoyed and resentful about it.

He also belittles me a lot over this whole process. Sometimes he makes me feel stupid or dramatic for needing help or accommodations after a major surgery. I already feel vulnerable enough going into this.

The hardest part is that he’s the only person I have here to help me after surgery. I have no friends nearby and my family lives 10 hours away, so I feel completely alone and trapped depending on someone who doesn’t even seem to want to support me.

Did anyone else’s relationship or marriage change after bariatric surgery? Did anyone end up divorced afterward? I keep hearing surgery changes relationships and I’m scared mine is already breaking before it even starts.

I think I just need honesty and support from people who understand this process.

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u/LxveyLadyM00N — 1 month ago

Weight Gain during liquid diet pre-op?

Hi everyone! I have been weighing myself on my pre-op liquid diet. I have been following the plan to a T and I have not had any cheat days. I’m on day 7. On day 5, I was down 5 pounds. But today when I checked again, my weight went up a pound.

Shouldn’t it be dropping? Does this mean my liver isn’t shrinking? I’m panicking because my clinic said they will know if someone didn’t follow the plan if they didn’t lose a lot of weight. 4 pounds in 7 days does not seem like enough.

Please help calm my fears. This isn’t normal is it? Everyone on here says they lost 10 pounds or more.

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u/LxveyLadyM00N — 2 months ago

Hi! This is a question for all of the people who got surgery in the US.

How much did you pay for your surgery? Initially, I thought my hospital allowed payment plans but they surprised me with the shock that I would have to pay my out of pocket max of $2,300 before they will cover it.

I had to quickly save up to afford that before next month but I’m curious - what did you have to pay out of pocket if you had insurance? And did they make you pay it up front?

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u/LxveyLadyM00N — 2 months ago