u/Majestic-End-2223

You can just read my post history. Last night I was arguing with my partner over not letting my kids have a relationship with his mom. The main reason is due to the fact that my mother-in-law has displayed psychological behaviors like entitlement, passive aggressive comments, competitiveness with me over the caring of my child, and family power moves. Now he says I have to talk to my mil to address the problems I have with her, and the issues I express with him must go to her. When I tell him about the behaviors I’ve witnessed, it feels like he excuses her behavior or tells me that I’m misinterpreting it. We are considering couple’s therapy but he told me that if nothing changes then he cannot be in a relationship with me. I just feel anxious about the whole situation, unsupported, and feeling like I have to accept the behavior.

So we got into an argument last night that resulted in him grabbing his things and leaving the house. It’s not the first time this happens but he chose the leave and I never told him to leave. Within minutes of leaving I received a notification from telegram saying that he joined the app. (He had deleted the app after god knows how many d-days and I also have my contacts synced) I’m planning on asking him about this and telling him how it makes me feel. But could this most likely be relapsing? He doesn’t really share much details with me and it bothers me.

tw: mentions of dv

You can just read my post history. Last night I was arguing with my partner over not letting my kids have a relationship with his mom. The main reason is due to the fact that my mother-in-law has displayed behaviors like entitlement, competitiveness with me over the caring of my child, and family power moves. Unfortunately it resulted me in filing a police report. Can’t provide details to stay anonymous. Now he’s using Darvo saying he doesn’t feel safe because of the report. Wtf am I supposed to do with all of this?