u/MajorVonPop

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35 divorced 8 months ago. Just entering the dating world for the first time 10 years. Let's just say you looked at me You would say that man loves some NASCAR. I was raising the South. I'm a bit of a southern gentleman.

I went to a big college in our backyard of my fraternity. House was the black sorority and we got to know the girls super good. I dated two black women to college and they were the only women I've ever had who pursued me. It was completely different than what I was using to. Course I graduate. I move home. I married a white woman with kids. We get divorced 10 years old.

I would really like today a black woman again. It's not a weird sex trophy. I enjoy the natural hair. I think they are the most loyal women on the Earth. I got to go home with my college girlfriends and I really enjoyed that the entire family cousins uncle's everybody came to cookouts. That's not something I experience as a white kid growing up with my family

What can I put in my dating profiles that shows I am looking for a black woman but it's not a weird sexual fan. I have met men who have you Asian women, black women like their sexual fees that ain't me. Am I just completely honest and my dating profile and so what I'm looking for? Or is there something I could say that edible woman would look at my profile? It would be like yeah he likes the sisters.

Married 10 years, my divorce finalized 7 months ago and I've used the time from separation to now about 9 months to better myself with therapy, men's groups, being able to be a dad without my ex hovering. So no dates or much of anything from women the last 9 months.

My divorce was out of the blue, shook me to my core. In 9 months my ex has had 5 boyfriends and never owned her half of the divorce.

I got my first date Saturday evening. Boys I am nervous, I'm 36 years old re-entering the dating world. I was president of my fraternity in college I know the social skills are there but Lord the nerves.

I guess I'm asking if anyone else felt guilt about seeing a new lady even after the divorce was forced on you? It feels weird but I feel like I'm letting my kids down

10 years and two kids

A little over a year ago I sat my wife down and said get I know we're busy being parents but I've never felt this lonely in a relationship. And that she showed me no affection and we were roommates. Things got better

Financial stress like everyone else we were covering another mortgage payment on a rental house because her sister moved in against my wishes and surprise surprise didn't pay rent. We get her out and list the rental house that sells on listing day and we made a substantial amount of money off of it. It was my first home I bought out of high school we're both 36 years old and it immensely took every bit of financial stress off of us that I completely paid off our debt.

We take the kids on nice beach vacation we get back on a Saturday and she tells me she wants separation that Monday. I tell her I'm not chasing you. You want a separation There's the door. She says she doesn't want to do this. She just needs space. We do marriage counseling and I think we're making great progress

About 2 months ago. Just completely different woman doesn't talk to me at child pickup and drop off clearly. She's got another man right. Press her on the issue. She started dating a new dude 2 weeks after we separated. We were literally going through marriage counseling and She's dating A new guy.

She admitted all this 2 weeks ago. And I got to say how free it feels to file for divorce. I was hesitant for my children but if you were on the fence just do it get it over with. She wasted so many years and then 8 months of separation. I'm going through counseling doing classes going through men's groups trying to improve myself as a man.