u/Mammoth-Business-652

There is a meme i saw a while back that said, "If you meet a man who is above 30, no kids and never been married, you will soon find out why you found him single😄"

This is obviously stereotypical, stupid even, a dangerous perspective to hold. Times have changed, people marry late for different reasons, some even decide not to and that's okay. So basically the idea that people who are over 30 andno kids, never been married are red flags is RIDICULOUS, right?

I'm F33. Fall in the same category, and i gotta say my dating experiences in the last 3 years or so proved this ridiculous meme to carry some truth🤣. I don't totaly believe it because that would mean i am a redflag too🤣, and i am a pretty decent human who was unlucky once. But i am just wondering what y'alls experiences have been in this regard?

So i had a hurtful breakup just after turning 31, right when i thought i was about to get married. For some reason after that break up, my life took a turn for the worst. Misfortune after misfortune, lost friends to distance, etc, i have been merely existing not living. I have recently regained my will to live, and i am wondering if i need to uproot mylife and move somewhere else and try to find love and life again. Doing that means i leave my job which i love so much and has given me a sense of purpose. Is it a legit reason to want to move to find love? I'm 34F, no kids never been married.

Does anybody else struggle with involuntary crying? If people are polite and nice to ypu , you wanna cry? If you see a movie, hardly evoking any emotion, you wanna cry? You are sick with something minor like a flu. You go to the clinic, nurses talking to you, you wanna cry? How to make that stop?