Would love to find a chat buddy. I’m from the northeast & still adjusting to the desert.
Feeling occasionally lonely in this big world & would love to chat with someone with similar interests in movies, travel, food, whatever.
New here.
Would love to find a chat buddy. I’m a transplanted Northeasterner in the American desert. Still getting used to it. How does anyone over 50 make some new friends around here (reddit & in real life)? Would love someone to just shoot the 💩 with.
My “boyfriend “ & I are in our mid 50s. He’s divorced 8 yrs after being married almost 30. We’re living together a year & a half after casually dating for about the same amount of time. My question is should I tell him how I feel, don’t waste my breath cuz it’s a waste of time & just move on? I’m kinda afraid of his answer because then it makes it all real.
The situation- we found each other on a VERY casual dating site. In the beginning, for work, he was out of town 2 week of practically every month & when he was in town I’d only see him on weekends. During those times, I’d spend a night or 2. What made me think things had moved beyond just sex was when he invited me to celebrate his birthday with him & when I found out his daughter AND ex-wife not only knew about me, they knew my name. My reasoning being you don’t tell your daughter &/or ex-wife about a woman you’re just having sex with. Right?
Anyway, I move in with him after losing my residence situation. We’re sleeping in the same bed, but no sex. Two month in he gets a cold, gives it to me & I develop a cough. I moved myself out of the bedroom cuz he’s a light sleeper. He got upset. I feel he thought I was rejecting him in some way. I explained my reason. Somehow I never moved back, he never asked & it’s been over a yr. Still no sex.
I notice him hiding his cell from me & being nosy I discover he’s on dating sites. Naively, I ignore it. About 7-8 months after I move in he doesn’t come home from work 1 Friday night. Meanwhile, we have dinner together every night, spend weekends together. He comes home the next day with a lame excuse of drinking too much & couldnt drive. I notice condoms in his nightstand which I then begin tracking on a daily basis. Most of the time, there’s no change.
Meanwhile, he says nothing to me about him looking or I should look. It’s complete secrecy from his end. Although, he somehow brings sex up in almost every conversation & let’s me know all his equipment works.
Earlier this year, there was a passing moment of affection followed by no sex & a few days later, he disappears again overnight. This time I went off the rails & looked at his cell & found some unpleasant conversations regarding me like “I haven’t touched her since she moved in”, from the woman he met calling me “that woman”, “I don’t like her like that” & a few other things. I know it was wrong,but I couldn’t stop myself.
I never meant for the sex to stop. I don’t know if he really meant those things he said or he’s hurt & horny & would say anything. I know he’s horny, I’m horny, too. I don’t know if there is a way to reverses this or even bother.