r/FriendsOver50

I’m 52F in the U.S. looking for consistent online connections. I’m naturally reserved, but I have plenty to say once I feel there is a genuine connection. I’m interested in meaningful conversations that go beyond the surface.

I value my privacy, so I don't exchange pictures or meet in person. I’m strictly looking for a platonic friendship built on words and shared thoughts. If you’re also looking for a genuine, low-pressure person to chat, feel free to DM.

Hi! 54/m and living in AZ. I’ve had a little success on here…..but, still hoping for a few new people to chat with about anything during the day. I work from home and when that is slow, it would be fun to have a few new friendships. Anyone else feel the same way? Feel free to message. Thank you!

Hello, I’m a 58/female looking to connect with other creative individuals and build meaningful friendships. I often have multiple projects underway and enjoy a wide range of creative pursuits, including knitting, crocheting, sewing, hand stitching, shuttle tatting, and watercolor painting. A colleague recently gifted me a paint-by-numbers kit—I haven’t started it yet, but I’m really looking forward to it. I also enjoy cooking; today I made a batch of sourdough English muffins (my second attempt!), and they turned out wonderfully. I consider myself a lifelong learner and welcome everyone who is also interested in finding other creative people.

My current projects include a lace scarf, a pair of socks, a knitted potholder, and a pincushion house. While I work quite a bit, I would love to connect with others who have creative interests. Would be great to share our projects, exchange ideas, and motivate one another.

Thank you for reading my post and have a wonderful day!

I'm 54 and feel like a failure. I'm basically starting over. I moved back in with my parents after getting laid off and they remind me every day to get ready to move out. Prior to all of this I felt relatively successful with work and my kids. Now every day I'm pretty down on myself. Does anyone else relate?

Any ideas or recommendations for a 50+ "retired" person on how to make friends??

I'd love to find a social club/group that is NOT based on religion, politics, child rearing, or any sort of ideology. Something that's more interest based; for example, reading, gardening, walking, cooking, crafting (sewing, crocheting, glass working, embroidery, woodworking, etc.), or just shooting the shit. And ideally it would be something where you meet up during weekdays (or very infrequent nights and weekends) as when my husband is home from work I want to spend time with him, yet while he's working I'm bored outa my gourd.

All of my past friendships have been based on proximity (such as school or jobs) and once I relocated from Boise ID to Twin Falls ID, and retired, all of those relationships completely dried up. I don't believe for a second that I'm the only one in this type of position, so what does one do when you hit a certain age and find yourself at loose ends for most of the day?

50 yo old man very lonely

What is one thing in life that you regret waiting so long to do?

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Have you ever decided it's too windy to go outside?

Yeah, I've been beaten by pollen and wind today. I'm trying to tackle my indoor to-do list instead.

On my own and struggling, but always trying to make the best of everything, usually with humor and goals. If anyone is looking to chat about random whatever... and maybe encourage each other to keep on keeping on, DM me.

What are you reading, watching, listening to or working on? 🌈☮️

I live in the country on the edge of my town and because I’m legally blind… I can’t drive so that limits so I can make friends. I love to read I love music I love nature and the outdoors. I love my puppies and my cat. I’m always picking up new hobbies. Currently trying to renovate my home. But it looks like the older you get the friends just kind of disappear with their own lives and I could really use making a few truly good friends. Making friends online is all well and good. I would love to make some friends that might live in the area also so if anybody’s interested, just shoot me a message.

Hello. I am a 59 year old widow. Recently ended a inappropriate 2 year relationship and even though it ended mutually I and now depressed and feeling isolated.

I am hoping to find an online friend I can talk to and listen to. My interests include TV and Movies, Sports, Food.

I am semi- retired in the US Central Time Zone I am usually on line in the afternoon , evenings and stay up late usually until 2am- so I have a lot of lonely time on my hands.

Please send me a message if you want to chat.

We know the concept from work: you show up, you do what's required, no more. No drama, just a quiet withdrawal of engagement.

I caught myself wondering today whether the same thing happens in ordinary daily life.

Not depression, not burnout... something more subtle. The weekend plans of others include bike rides and kayaking trips. For a moment I think: I'd like that too. Then almost immediately: why would I? And the impulse is just gone.

It crept up without a moment I can point to. Like noticing a tree is missing on a road you drive every day and having no idea when it disappeared.

Is this familiar to anyone? And if so: did you find a way through it, or did you make peace with it?

As it says im 52, living in NW Minnesota and in the process of getting divorced. Im not looking for anything physical, I just realized all my friends where my wife's friends and either I dont want to talk to them or them to me, either way. Looking for people to chat with online, or if you live in the area hang out. Im big on comedy shows, television, cooking, sports (Vikings, but behind from Houston I still love my Astros and Rockets) my work days are 10-12 hours normally so my off days are what I'm looking for.

If you are interested contact me.

Earlier i met a really cool guy we were having a great conversation and getting along great then all of a sudden he stopped talking if this guy happens to see this please contact me.

How does everyone feel about pushing 60, I'm not far off now and feel relatively healthy. But yesterday I got out of bed with a sore ankle, how do you injure your ankle while asleep in bed 😀 thats old age for you

So career is amazing, kids are successful. Healthiest I’ve ever been…. Now what?

I was suffering from cold feet and hands , obviously worse in winter and it would keep me awake till my feet warmed up, I was getting white fingers all the time and was really suffering with bad circulation. So I researched and found a supplement called citrulline, which is a vasal dilator, I also weight train and it's actually a supplement for that , pre workout, better pumps better energy release. But ..Gentlemen, being a vasal dilator it also has a very interesting bonus, which will probably cause you to ...ahem... rise early in the morning with surprising results. Do your research n thank me later. PS don't bother with Citrulline Malate it's far weaker, you want Citrulline base 😋

Hi. I’m a 55 yo married white male from Iowa. I am posting this because I have no friends. In fact, I struggle with making friends and maintaining friendships. The main culprits would be my autism, anxiety, depression, and low self esteem.

All my life I have struggled with friendship. I never had any true friends, just people I went to school with or work with. No one invited me to hang out or come to their parties. If I wanted to do something, I had to do it alone.

I’m 5’11, 250 pounds, usually have a 5 o’clock shadow, losing my hair up on top, and would have what many would say a dad bod. I am kind, compassionate, empathetic, intelligent, and love learning new things. I suffer for mental health issues, but I am currently working on making myself the best person I can be. I am passionate about Star Wars, Lego, music, feeding the hungry, helping the homeless, and taking care of stray animals.

I am open to talk about anything. I am very honest. I am a logical thinker, and can come across and dry. Because I lack social skills, I often say things that may seem odd or inappropriate. I struggle with small talk and often don’t know what to say. I will only communicate via texting.

Looking for someone who is understanding of all my issues and can be a true friend. Looking for someone who is going to stick around and not ghost me after 1 day. Would also like someone who is capable of helping moving the conversation along if I get stuck or get focused on one topic.

I can be a great friend if you give me a chance. I’m open to all ages. Hope to hear from you.

Am back in my hometown after 25 years away in London, but there is nobody here. Does anyone want to chat?

I am a 53 male looking for friends. I enjoy gaming tv movies. I have a disability that doesnt allow me to get out much but enjoy chatting. No subject is taboo can talk about anything you feel like. Dm me to chat.